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Simon & Schuster Children's Publishing (1999), Edition: 1st, 240 pages
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After starting to publish a zine in which he writes his secret feelings about his lonely life and his parents' divorce, sixteen-year-old John meets an unusual girl and begins to develop a healthier personality.
Original publication date
1999-06-01
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LibraryThing member yourotherleft
Wittlinger brings her two struggling zine-writing teens to life. John is a normal teenage guy. His emotions never come to the surface and when they seem to in his writing, he claims it wasn't his intention to seem emotional. Dealing with his parents' divorce and his father's desertion of him (on an
When Wittlinger brings these two characters together, fireworks go off. Soon John is sure that he is capable of love but has found an unfortunate target for all of the love and emotion he has kept inside since his parents' divorce. On the other hand, Marisol, while never doubting her sexuality, allows her wall of somewhat phony self-confidence to be penetrated by the bumbling John. The two become each other's best friend and worst enemy capable of hurting each other in a way they never thought possible. Wittlinger's development of these two characters is flawless.
Readers get a believable view into the psyche of an "average" teenage boy and all the hurt that lies therein. A few of the final scenes of the book moved me nearly to tears. As a teen book, Hard Love accomplishes what few that I've read recently do. It captures real issues without condescension and without slamming readers over the head with so much shocking bad language and behavior that it seems totally unsuitable to younger readers. I'm not faint of heart, and I was always allowed to read whatever I wanted once I hit my teenage years, but even I have to admit that I have been a tad blown away by what passes for "young adult" fiction now. This book breaks the mold. Highly recommended!
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emotional level) and his mother's desertion of him (on a physical level) have left him emotionally stunted and so indifferent about love that he can't rightly identify himself as straight or gay. The complete other side of the coin is Marisol, who identifies herself as a lesbian and seems completely comfortable in her own skin even before she graduates from high school. She's a straight shooter who abhors lying, even to one's own self. John, in an effort to escape his every day reality, can't seem to stop lying. When Wittlinger brings these two characters together, fireworks go off. Soon John is sure that he is capable of love but has found an unfortunate target for all of the love and emotion he has kept inside since his parents' divorce. On the other hand, Marisol, while never doubting her sexuality, allows her wall of somewhat phony self-confidence to be penetrated by the bumbling John. The two become each other's best friend and worst enemy capable of hurting each other in a way they never thought possible. Wittlinger's development of these two characters is flawless.
Readers get a believable view into the psyche of an "average" teenage boy and all the hurt that lies therein. A few of the final scenes of the book moved me nearly to tears. As a teen book, Hard Love accomplishes what few that I've read recently do. It captures real issues without condescension and without slamming readers over the head with so much shocking bad language and behavior that it seems totally unsuitable to younger readers. I'm not faint of heart, and I was always allowed to read whatever I wanted once I hit my teenage years, but even I have to admit that I have been a tad blown away by what passes for "young adult" fiction now. This book breaks the mold. Highly recommended!
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LibraryThing member kaionvin
Painfully (and not always in the good way) earnest and at times laughably dated, I still admired Hard Love for its ambitions. From every pore, this book screamed 'Express yourself!' and strove to portray a warts-and-all look at teenage 'escape'.
John, a full-time high-school cynic, is incapable of
It's to Wittlinger's credit that the conflicts that arise from John and Marisol's tumultuous friendship are entrenched within their character traits and not resolved easily with plot cliches. The thing is, I'm not sure the characters aren't really very relatable to those of us who have grown past our rebellious navel-gazing phases.
Part of growing up is realizing not only the power of your own feelings, but also, ultimately, becoming less self-obsessed and moving on. I felt like the book while exploring the first part of that journey, failed to hold the characters to the responsibility of being accountable to their actions in the name of being true to the self.
And in the imbalanced narrative arc, I felt a little cheated by the unearned coming-of-age ending that failed to really explore the deeper questions of identity: Does packaging a 'you' cheapen its reality? We've all still have so much further to go (and so many more growing pangs to suffer).
John, a full-time high-school cynic, is incapable of
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expressing himself (be it to his divorced parents or his love-obsessed best friend) and. Until he discovers 'zines (basically paper and ink blogs for the creative set for all of us who can't remember the '90s) and one 'zine writer in particular, Marisol, who's an outspoken, identity-seeking, lesbian teen.It's to Wittlinger's credit that the conflicts that arise from John and Marisol's tumultuous friendship are entrenched within their character traits and not resolved easily with plot cliches. The thing is, I'm not sure the characters aren't really very relatable to those of us who have grown past our rebellious navel-gazing phases.
Part of growing up is realizing not only the power of your own feelings, but also, ultimately, becoming less self-obsessed and moving on. I felt like the book while exploring the first part of that journey, failed to hold the characters to the responsibility of being accountable to their actions in the name of being true to the self.
And in the imbalanced narrative arc, I felt a little cheated by the unearned coming-of-age ending that failed to really explore the deeper questions of identity: Does packaging a 'you' cheapen its reality? We've all still have so much further to go (and so many more growing pangs to suffer).
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LibraryThing member aleon
John Galardi (Giovanni, or Gio for short) is a little less than normal boy who has never really had friends. He’s never really liked girls, even going as far to think that he may be gay. Brian, his only “friend” is obsessed with becoming popular and making something out of himself, but
This book was really good, but mostly just for a quick read. The plot was a little repetitive and started with a boring beggining, and honestly it didn’t really get much better for me. It has a bit of humor in it but I feel like the author was trying for teen angst and it ended up a little off. This book was nice but I really wouldn’t recommend it for people who don’t really have the focus to ride out the slower parts.
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John… isnt. That is until he meets the author of his favorite zine Escape Velocity, Marisol, a self proclaimed “rich spoiled lesbian private-school gifted-and -talented writer virgin looking for love”. John starts making new friends and feels like he's never felt before. The problem being when his feelings for end up blowing up in his face, seeing as she's a lesbian. The book is basically about how a teen handles being in a completely one-sided relationship. This book was really good, but mostly just for a quick read. The plot was a little repetitive and started with a boring beggining, and honestly it didn’t really get much better for me. It has a bit of humor in it but I feel like the author was trying for teen angst and it ended up a little off. This book was nice but I really wouldn’t recommend it for people who don’t really have the focus to ride out the slower parts.
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LibraryThing member dandelion1
This was good -- about an emotionally constipated boy who likes to write, john or Gio... he developes a zine and a crush on a lesbian adopted girl. Somehow their connection helps them both to break through their lack of trust. Quite good.
LibraryThing member francescadefreitas
This was an antidote to the romances I've been reading lately. John and Marisol meet and become friends: sharing a love of writing, and a certain loneliness. Their friendship has a great capacity for bringing joy and comfort, but an equal capacity for causing damage. When John falls in love with
I was uncomfortable with John and Marisol's relationship, not because it was unrealistic, but because it was very realistic, and I could see disaster looming. I know it is the difficult relationships that be the most wonderful, but I was two busy anticipating the pain to be able to enjoy the way they helped each other open up to wider truths about themselves and about the world.
I'd give this to people looking for realistic fiction about friendship and relationships - especially for stories about children surviving divorce.
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Marisol, a lesbian, their relationship can never go back to the way it was.I was uncomfortable with John and Marisol's relationship, not because it was unrealistic, but because it was very realistic, and I could see disaster looming. I know it is the difficult relationships that be the most wonderful, but I was two busy anticipating the pain to be able to enjoy the way they helped each other open up to wider truths about themselves and about the world.
I'd give this to people looking for realistic fiction about friendship and relationships - especially for stories about children surviving divorce.
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LibraryThing member 4sarad
I couldn't get into this book at all. I think I just had nothing in common with the main characters and really didn't find them that interesting. I could see where the book was going and there weren't really any surprises nor really any memorable scenes. The ending in particular was just kind of
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LibraryThing member sszkutak
This was one of my favorite books growing up. Reminding you of your first crush, the one you always wanted but for some reason couldn't have/ never made a move for. Wittlinger's story telling is amazing and true to life, there is the drama of being a teen in love and the not so happy ending that
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most angsty teen books employ. Hard Love touches issues of sexuality and finding yourself through another perfectly even though things don't always work out for the best. Show Less
LibraryThing member fromthecomfychair
A quick but poignant read. On the surface, it seems to be about gay and lesbian teens; in reality, it is about the lessons of love, how little we can control who we love, and how much less who loves us in return. Realistic, with no "happy" endings, but no "sad" ones, either. Kind of like life.
LibraryThing member jimrgill
Rare among Young Adult fiction—or just about any fiction, for that matter—*Hard Love* tells the story of a friendship between a presumptively heterosexual teenage boy, John, and a lesbian teenager, Marisol. Despite the somewhat predictable trajectory of the narrative (to no one’s surprise but
John, who is somewhat of a social misfit, is trying his best to cope with his parents’ divorce and the overall disillusionment that most adolescents endure. He turns to zines for creativity and comfort. (The novel is set in the 1990s, so the focus on zines—which now seem quaint—is historically accurate. The noticeable absence of cell phones in the story also feels odd, considering their central role in contemporary teen culture.) John becomes enamored of a zine called Escape Velocity and vows to meet its author, Marisol. He greets her with his own zine, Bananafish, and the two become fast but unlikely friends.
Literacy—and the developmental power of writing and reading—help shape John’s identity throughout the course of the novel. He even adopts a nom de plume (Gio) as he tries to envision himself as a writer, friend, neglected son (like many teenagers, John has some major beefs with both of his parents), would-be romantic partner, and—most traumatic of all—prom attendee. Although Wittlinger might lay it on a bit thick with these teens’ devotion to zines, the emotions she portrays are always genuine and credible. She successfully depicts her characters as thoughtful, reflective, autonomous teens who are well aware of the challenges they face.
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his own, John falls in love with Marisol), the novel navigates the murky waters of unrequited love beneath the broken bridge of incompatible sexual orientations in a way that both reaffirms young adult sexual identity and convincingly reflects the bittersweet experience of teenage romance.John, who is somewhat of a social misfit, is trying his best to cope with his parents’ divorce and the overall disillusionment that most adolescents endure. He turns to zines for creativity and comfort. (The novel is set in the 1990s, so the focus on zines—which now seem quaint—is historically accurate. The noticeable absence of cell phones in the story also feels odd, considering their central role in contemporary teen culture.) John becomes enamored of a zine called Escape Velocity and vows to meet its author, Marisol. He greets her with his own zine, Bananafish, and the two become fast but unlikely friends.
Literacy—and the developmental power of writing and reading—help shape John’s identity throughout the course of the novel. He even adopts a nom de plume (Gio) as he tries to envision himself as a writer, friend, neglected son (like many teenagers, John has some major beefs with both of his parents), would-be romantic partner, and—most traumatic of all—prom attendee. Although Wittlinger might lay it on a bit thick with these teens’ devotion to zines, the emotions she portrays are always genuine and credible. She successfully depicts her characters as thoughtful, reflective, autonomous teens who are well aware of the challenges they face.
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LibraryThing member csoki637
Excellent YA lit. The characters break out of the mold of boring, conformist high school character and succeed in being fascinating, original, believable characters who fully exist outside their high schools' social structures. I really enjoyed the author's mix of John's friendship with Marisol
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with his relationships with his parents. A mother who ceased to touch him at all after her divorce and a father who considers Friday-night dinners fulfillment of his paternal duties added to the complexity of John's character. Without being either dull or overwrought with drama, "Hard Love" manages to elicit honest emotion in a world of convincing, interesting characters. And it's even funny too. Show Less
LibraryThing member foggidawn
While dealing with emotional trauma from growing up in a broken home, John falls in love for the first time with Marisol, a lesbian.
For some reason I expected this book to be gritty, but I actually found it rather sweet, or maybe bittersweet. I can relate to John's romantic angst, as I imagine most
For some reason I expected this book to be gritty, but I actually found it rather sweet, or maybe bittersweet. I can relate to John's romantic angst, as I imagine most
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people could -- I've certainly been there, more than once, loving somebody who couldn't or wouldn't love me back. This is a Printz honor book, and though I don't always love the Printz committee's selections, I agree with them in this case. Recommended. Show Less
LibraryThing member TheTreeReader
I’ve had this book on my wish list for years, so I was so happy when I finally got my hands on it. Thanks Mom!
I was expecting to like Hard Love, but I ended up loving it. It was so good that I read it in one sitting. I know that isn’t saying much since it’s not a very big book, but I’ve
I basically loved every single thing about this book. I think the only thing I didn’t like was that Marisol is always saying she’s a lesbian. I understand why she is always saying it, but after a while it’s just like you’re gay, we get it. Other than that I had no problems. This might even be one of my favorite books now. I really need to get my hands on Love & Lies: Marisol’s Story.
I was expecting to like Hard Love, but I ended up loving it. It was so good that I read it in one sitting. I know that isn’t saying much since it’s not a very big book, but I’ve
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been struggling with reading lately, so the fact that I was able to do that surprised me.I basically loved every single thing about this book. I think the only thing I didn’t like was that Marisol is always saying she’s a lesbian. I understand why she is always saying it, but after a while it’s just like you’re gay, we get it. Other than that I had no problems. This might even be one of my favorite books now. I really need to get my hands on Love & Lies: Marisol’s Story.
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