Saying Kaddish: How to Comfort the Dying, Bury the Dead & Mourn As a Jew

by Anita Diamant

Book, 1999

Barcode

123460229

Call number

654 DIA

Publication

New York : London : Kuperard, 1999.

Description

The definitive guide to Judaism's end-of-life rituals, revised and updated for Jews of all backgrounds and beliefs   From caring for the dying to honoring the dead, Anita Diamant explains the Jewish practices that make mourning a loved one an opportunity to experience the full range of emotions--grief, anger, fear, guilt, relief--and take comfort in the idea that the memory of the deceased is bound up in our lives and actions.   In Saying Kaddish you will find suggestions for conducting a funeral and for observing the shiva week, the shloshim month, the year of Kaddish, the annual yahrzeit, and the Yizkor service. There are also chapters on coping with particular losses--such as the death of a child and suicide--and on children as mourners, mourning non-Jewish loved ones, and the bereavement that accompanies miscarriage.   Diamant also offers advice on how to apply traditional views of the sacredness of life to hospice and palliative care. Reflecting the ways that ancient rituals and customs have been adapted in light of contemporary wisdom and needs, she includes updated sections on taharah (preparation of the body for burial) and on using ritual immersion in a mikveh to mark the stages of bereavement. And, celebrating a Judaism that has become inclusive and welcoming. Diamant highlights rituals, prayers, and customs that will be meaningful to Jews-by-choice, Jews of color, and LGBTQ Jews. Concluding chapters discuss Jewish perspectives on writing a will, creating healthcare directives, making final arrangements, and composing an ethical will.… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member irisrose
When my Mom died I felt this book to be a comfort. I felt removed from temple and this enabled me to find a way back in. A good education tool for those both Jewish and non-Jewsih regarding rites and rituals in the Jewish faith.
LibraryThing member melsmarsh
I normally don't like Anita Diamant's books but this was surprisingly good. I think it covers almost everything one would need for the death and dying process. This is going to be quite helpful in my pararabbi program.

ISBN

0805210881 / 9780805210880
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