She Came to Stay

by Simone de Beauvoir

Paperback, 1990

Status

Checked out

Publication

Norton*(ww Norton Co (1990), Edition: 7th Printing, 404 pages

Description

Written as an act of revenge against the 17 year-old who came between her and Jean-Paul Sartre, She Came to Stay is Simone de Beauvoir's first novel - a lacerating study of a young, naive couple in love and the usurping woman who comes between them. 'It is impossible to talk about faithfulness and unfaithfulness where we are oncerned. You and I are simply one. Neither of us can be described without the other.' It was unthinkable that Pierre and Francoise should ever tire of each other. And yet, both talented and restless, they constantly feel the need for new sensations, new people. Because of this they bring the young, beautiful and irresponsible Xavière into their life who, determined to take Pierre for herself, drives a wedge between them, with unforeseeable, disastrous consequences... Published in 1943, 'She Came to Stay' is Simone de Beauvoir's first novel. Written as an act of revenge against the woman who nearly destroyed her now legendary, unorthodox relationship with the philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre, it fictionalises the events of 1935, when Sartre became infatuated with seventeen-year old Olga Bost, a pupil and devotee of de Beauvoir's. Passionately eloquent, coolly and devastatingly ironic, 'She Came to Stay' is one of the most extraordinary and powerful pieces of fictional autobiography of the twentieth century, in which de Beauvoir's 'tears for her characters freeze as they drop.' unorthodox relationship with the philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre, it fictionalises the events of 1935, when Sartre became infatuated with seventeen-year old Olga Bost, a pupil and devotee of de Beauvoir's. Passionately eloquent, coolly and devastatingly ironic, 'She Came to Stay' is one of the most extraordinary and powerful pieces of fictional autobiography of the twentieth century, in which de Beauvoir's 'tears for her characters freeze as they drop.'… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member mrscastavet
De Beauvoir's quietly autobiographical tale of a young woman moving in the home of a couple in an open relationship is at once heart breaking, angry and tender.

The book is like a boat on tumultuous water, the story tipping between the character's view points and over the main narrators anger,
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complicity, love/lust and hatred.

A compelling read, my personal favourite of De Beauvoir's back catalogue.
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LibraryThing member LynnB
And wanted to see how Ms de Beauvoir treated it in her fiction. Reading this semi-autobiographical novel did give me a look at a practical application of that philosophy.

Oh, and it's also a very interesting story. Francoise and Pierre have a deep and open relationship. They befriend a young woman
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(Xaviere) but their attempts to create a “perfect triangle” are unsuccessful. Partly because their philosophy doesn't align well with human nature. And partly because Xaviere herself is a narcissist – or maybe she's just young when most of us are that way to some extent. The depth of human emotions and motivations portrayed though the characters' iterations is fascinating to watch. Through the novel, we see Francoise change from someone devoted to her partner and to a philosophy, to someone who comes into her own as a person.

So glad I read this.
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LibraryThing member michaelbartley
set in paris before ww 2, the story is based on Simone and Sartre"s relationship and there involvement with a young trouble woman. The young woman is based on the twins of Olga and Wanda. the novel explores the emotional side of living a life of freedom and being authentic. Sartre in his work talks
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about the rational idea of personal freedom, Simone explores the emotional side. Simone looks for the real emotions how one can be free with those emotions. Simone with courage faces the dark side in each of us jealousy, anger, hate, and pity. To be free we need to live with those emotions. excellent book
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LibraryThing member libraryhermit
I kept noticing that Francoise and Pierre are always dissing Xaviere, most of the time behind her back. But the evidence that Xaviere reciprocates back to the evil pair is quite sparse. Or maybe I read too quickly through it to pick up on any of her comebacks.
But when they were all three or just
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two of them in the same room, Xaviere seemed rock solid in her comebacks. Whenever Francoise would say something really ignorant, Xaviere was always able to fend it off somehow.
I think whenever a pair who is strong decides to gang up on someone else, and the tricks are all secrets, that is the highest degree of degeneracy in the book.
Francoise and Pierre seem to take umbrage at every little thing that Xaviere says or does, so I wonder what their big problem is and why they can not live and let live. They need an object to attack because maybe they would be too bored if they could only analyse themselves.
I tried my best to understand the book in French, but maybe I will have to re-read it in English to get some of the nuances that I might have missed.
French or English does not matter, I think by the time I got to the last 5 pages or so, something extra super nasty was happening.
I think someone should have warned Xaviere to go to a community drop in centre instead of however she met up with the two losers that latched on to her.
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LibraryThing member amberluscious
Aside from it being a racist book, it's a pretty honest look into the internal work of non-monogamous relations

Original language

English

Original publication date

1943 (French)
1949 (English)

Physical description

404 p.; 5.5 x 0.75 inches

ISBN

0393306461 / 9780393306460
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