Eating Chinese food naked : a novel

by Mei Ng

Paper Book, 1998

Status

Available

Publication

New York : Scribner, c1998.

Description

This is a smart literary debut evocatively recounting Chinese-American life in a New York borough from a daughter's perspective.

User reviews

LibraryThing member LynnB
This book provides an intimate look at a family, at how our childhood affects our ability to develop and sustain relationships as adults. Returning home after college, Ruby is troubled by her parents' relationship: her father is always criticizing her passive mother. Her brother is estranged from
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the family; her sister lives right upstairs but isn't emotionally close to the rest of the family. Ruby's own life contains similar emotional distances: her lack of close friends and her inability to commit to a romantic relationship. There are deep themes here and very complex characters; it is the kind of book I want to think about for quite a while.
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LibraryThing member jbarr5
Eating Chinese Food Naked
Was hoping this audio book will include some Chinese recipes.
Ruby is back from college, to her mothers house and is not ready to move into her boyfriends apartment.
She gets a job because she's not sure what she wants to do after graduating from college.
Longer she stays
I
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received this book from National Library Service for my BARD (Braille Audio Reading Device).
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LibraryThing member DubaiReader
A character study.

This is very much a character driven book, very little actually happens, but we do get a feeling for life as a second generation Chinese girl in New York.

Ruby is 21 when she graduates from university and goes home to live with her parents. Although she didn't have much money in
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her bank account, I didn't get the feeling that her return was entirely a financial decision. She cared a great deal for her mother, Bell, whose uncaring husband treated her poorly. Although Ruby loved her father, I don't think she liked him very much and she was certainly aware of how mean he was to Bell.

Ruby wanted to take Bell away for a holiday in Florida, where her friends lived, and she worked as a temp to raise the funds, but the trip was continually postponed. Why? Bell just couldn't make the break from her husband, her life, even for a couple of weeks.

There was also a white boyfriend from Ruby's time at Columbia. While he loved Ruby, she wasn't sure how she felt about him and didn't see any problem with going off for other sexual encounters at the same time. There was quite a bit of sex in the book, thrown in in a very casual manner; nothing overtly blatant, but certainly not disguised.

I think what has stayed with me most from this book were the courtesies extended while eating - one would always choose the best bits and slip them into the other person's bowl and they would do the same for you. It was a way of showing you cared. That really appealed to me.

Published in 1998, this is the author's only book. I notice from her biography that Mei Ng was also a graduate of Columbia University and was raised in Queens, of Chinese parents; I wonder to what extent this book is autobiographical.

Not a riveting read but interesting and thought provoking.
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LibraryThing member mimo
Interesting story. Asian-American experience without being an "Asian-American experience", if that makes any sense. Basically a story about a woman trying to survive that phase in one's life, between college-years and the-rest-of-your-life. Particularly as an Asian-American, the process is loaded
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with family issues, and in Ruby's case, love.

Pace of the novel was slow -- slow like molasses, slow. I'm still deciding whether this added to or detracted from the story.
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Language

Original publication date

1998

Physical description

252 p.; 23 cm

ISBN

0684814161 / 9780684814162

Local notes

fiction
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