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"A master of the personal essay candidly explores love, death, and the counterfeit rituals of American life In her celebrated 2001 collection, My Misspent Youth, Meghan Daum offered a bold, witty, defining account of the artistic ambitions, financial anxieties, and mixed emotions of her generation. The Unspeakable is an equally bold and witty, but also a sadder and wiser, report from early middle age. It's a report tempered by hard times. In "Matricide," Daum unflinchingly describes a parent's death and the uncomfortable emotions it provokes; and in "Diary of a Coma" she relates her own journey to the twilight of the mind. But Daum also operates in a comic register. With perfect precision, she reveals the absurdities of the marriage-industrial complex, of the New Age dating market, and of the peculiar habits of the young and digital. Elsewhere, she writes searchingly about cultural nostalgia, Joni Mitchell, and the alternating heartbreak and liberation of choosing not to have children. Combining the piercing insight of Joan Didion with a warm humor reminiscent of Nora Ephron, Daum dissects our culture's most dangerous illusions, blind spots, and sentimentalities while retaining her own joy and compassion. Through it all, she dramatizes the search for an authentic self in a world where achieving an identity is never simple and never complete"-- "Essays on American sentimentality and its impact on the way we think about death, children, patriotism, and other matters"--… (more)
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I don’t often buy books, but this was one of the very few I’ve actually purchased this year. You see,
I live in Los Angeles, so I’m familiar with Daum as a regular “L.A. Times” columnist.
I love reading her work not only because she writes brilliantly with flashes of humor, but also because she is such a forthright authentic personality. She’s the type of person who tells us what she feels about important things in life not because she seeks a confessional, but because she knows that honesty will help us all to live the frank aboveboard lives we were meant to live. She helps us to feel happy in our own skin and with our own odd “unspeakable” thoughts.
This book is not a saucy confessional. Don’t read it if you’re expecting someone to open up and tell you a bunch of naughty secrets. This is definitely not that type of book. It’s a collection of ten essays about ordinary (and extraordinary) life drawn from the author’s private experience. What we discover is wide-open truth and honesty about personal matters that shape lives. Think of it as an enlightening and often humorous peak inside the unknowable truth of the human condition.
It’s been said that Daum is Generation-X’s version of Joan Didion. While I have no doubt that could, indeed, be true, I’m happy to say that her essays are an intellectual and emotional balm to members of my Baby-Boomer Generation, as well.
Two days ago, when I was still in the middle of reading this enjoyable collection, Slate magazine announced that Daum’s “Unspeakable” made it to their top-10-books-of-the-year list. Now that I’ve finished it, I’m not surprised. It is definitely that good.
If all I’ve said interests you, don’t hesitate to buy it and read it. Based on my own experience, I’m convinced this book will give you a lot of pleasure and make you feel good about yourself and your life. Heck, what more could you want from a book?
Her perspectives are interesting and her craft smooth and well-managed, but her insistence on projecting her specific experience to the universal ultimately outweighs her skill.