Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts.

by Brene Brown

Hardcover, 2018

Status

Available

Publication

Random House (2018), Edition: First Edition, 320 pages

Description

Business. Psychology. Self-Improvement. Nonfiction. HTML:#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Brené Brown has taught us what it means to dare greatly, rise strong, and brave the wilderness. Now, based on new research conducted with leaders, change makers, and culture shifters, she’s showing us how to put those ideas into practice so we can step up and lead. Don’t miss the five-part HBO Max docuseries Brené Brown: Atlas of the Heart! NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY BLOOMBERG Leadership is not about titles, status, and wielding power. A leader is anyone who takes responsibility for recognizing the potential in people and ideas, and has the courage to develop that potential. When we dare to lead, we don’t pretend to have the right answers; we stay curious and ask the right questions. We don’t see power as finite and hoard it; we know that power becomes infinite when we share it with others. We don’t avoid difficult conversations and situations; we lean into vulnerability when it’s necessary to do good work. But daring leadership in a culture defined by scarcity, fear, and uncertainty requires skill-building around traits that are deeply and uniquely human. The irony is that we’re choosing not to invest in developing the hearts and minds of leaders at the exact same time as we’re scrambling to figure out what we have to offer that machines and AI can’t do better and faster. What can we do better? Empathy, connection, and courage, to start. Four-time #1 New York Times bestselling author Brené Brown has spent the past two decades studying the emotions and experiences that give meaning to our lives, and the past seven years working with transformative leaders and teams spanning the globe. She found that leaders in organizations ranging from small entrepreneurial startups and family-owned businesses to nonprofits, civic organizations, and Fortune 50 companies all ask the same question: How do you cultivate braver, more daring leaders, and how do you embed the value of courage in your culture? In this new book, Brown uses research, stories, and examples to answer these questions in the no-BS style that millions of readers have come to expect and love. Brown writes, “One of the most important findings of my career is that daring leadership is a collection of four skill sets that are 100 percent teachable, observable, and measurable. It’s learning and unlearning that requires brave work, tough conversations, and showing up with your whole heart. Easy? No. Because choosing courage over comfort is not always our default. Worth it? Always. We want to be brave with our lives and our work. It’s why we’re here.” Whether you’ve read Daring Greatly and Rising Strong or you’re new to Brené Brown’s work, this book is for anyone who wants to step up and into brave leadership.… (more)

Rating

(146 ratings; 4)

User reviews

LibraryThing member Karen.Helfrick
As always, Brene uses clear language and helpful tools to inspire readers to take a look at their actions and emotions, and change them if needed for the better. A must read for leadership.
LibraryThing member ygifford
As an IT Manager, I really enjoyed the book. It also comes with a workbook that you can download from Brene's website. Lead from compassion and caring and you will succeed. Good Luck!
LibraryThing member ygifford
As an IT Manager, I really enjoyed the book. It also comes with a workbook that you can download from Brene's website. Lead from compassion and caring and you will succeed. Good Luck!
LibraryThing member scottjpearson
I often use slow times of the year to read psychologically oriented books that apply to my life. This Christmas, I picked up this book that deals with leadership and being up-front with emotions in the workplace. This book’s author served in the military before getting a PhD in sociology. Her
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topic of interest is vulnerability as a leadership trait.

The influx of women into the American workplace has changed workplace dynamics. This book – whose topic could not have even been conceived of fifty years ago – is further evidence of that. Top-down leadership is out while developing a flatter, healthier workplace environment is in.

I think we, both men and women, owe a lot to those, like Brown, who are acting to change workplace environments. I appreciate Brown’s emphasis on direct truth-speaking while she encourages us not to wander into “brutal” truth-speaking. She responsibly advises us to manage and express our emotions in a healthier way. In terms of values, she admonishes her readers to choose courage over comfort.

These concepts apply to either gender, but it is hard to read Brown’s words without considering the prism of gender. Feelings are human and not the sole possession of either men or women. However, their expression in social climates certainly tests one’s competency in gender issues. While I seek to be a male who is in touch with his feelings, I cannot imagine this book being written by a male who is not a therapist. But that’s a good thing. We need diverse voices to make our workplaces better.

This book’s greatest strength consists of taking away one’s emotional “armor” (accrued through years of unhealthy work experiences) and endeavoring to make the reader more emotionally engaged. One can see Brown’s expertise in the area of personal vulnerability. I’d like to hear more from Brown about how that influences social dynamics of a team – how vulnerability in a leader translates into team action and team results.

Overall, I always find myself grateful for occasionally reading books of a self-help ilk. They keep me from voyaging too far off the right path. Brown’s well-written book is no exception to this trend.
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LibraryThing member nmarun
Learning 'me' is the prerequisite for leading them - is the premise of this book. Handling vulnerability, dealing with fear, taming my ego, being non-judgmental are some virtues that are seen in a leader. Many parts of the book are backed by research and/or proven empirically through interviews
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with some successful leaders.

I'm more conscious about giving feedback now. The pointers given in the book that one should remember while giving feedback make a lot of sense and put us in the other's shoes making us empathetic while doing so. I'm also becoming more aware of my breathing during tough/tense situations, but I know it's a long and winding path ahead of me to master that.

"People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care." - so very true.
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LibraryThing member gaillamontagne
I love audio books but his one would be better if I had the workbook and could go through it more thoughtfully.
She can really challenge a person to brave honesty, and so live with more integrity and courage. The outcome is a greater impact on other peoples' lives.
LibraryThing member KimMeyer
Definitely not my favorite Brene. This is the corporate version for sure, and lacks the insight and storytelling I most love her work for. A substantial portion of it is also resummarized from her previous books.
LibraryThing member LDVoorberg
This is my first Brene Brown book. It comes across like a Greatest Hits compilation album, because she frequently references her previous books and includes their info here. I'm guessing this book does not have a lot of new material, but maybe it is a way to take the old material and re-package it
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for a (business) leader audience. As with many follow-up self-help books that trail behind an initial bestseller, there is a lot of garrulous patter that fluffs up the actual content. Concise is not a word to describe this one. Surprisingly, I found the second half of the book to have more meaningful gems than the first half (usually it is the opposite). I also think this book would be useful as a reference, that there are sections that could be re-read as one encounters situations and needs reminding or coaching through them. So, good stuff but it could use some weeding. Or Cole's notes.
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LibraryThing member DrFuriosa
Brene Brown frames her research and rumbling techniques for leadership situations. It's practical and helpful, even if there are familiar elements from her previous books. 4.5 stars.
LibraryThing member ecataldi
I've been hearing the Brene Brown hype for years and this is the first time I've dove into one of her leadership books. It was really eye opening - I rarely take notes or mark pages but there were multiple times when I had to stop to re-read something because it struck me, The concepts are great
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for organizational leadership and also personal growth. Strategies range from developing empathy to accepting feedback to passing over perfectionism can help improve anyone's lives. Extremely eye opening. Brown has lots of free printables (workbooks, motivational posters, etc) on her website and I look forward to digging into those as well. I definitely wouldn't mind reading her other work - she referenced them quite a lot in this one.
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LibraryThing member Brown
This book is marginally useful at best. It is full of distracting self-quotes from the author's earlier publication and self-analysis of the author. Worst of all, middle-school-level gutter language shows up everywhere. The author tries to justify this as a positive virtue. I will not read another
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of her books.
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LibraryThing member hskey
Quite good, although I'm looking forward to our book club at work, I think it will lead to some good discussion. I really like Brown's emphasis on trust and vulnerability; those two factors have been heavily present in my own positive work experiences.

I find this the case for many self-help or
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business books, there are so many models and acronyms that the last 1/3 of the book had me in a bit of a daze. I'm still not sure how I felt about the story with her assistant/colleague at the airport. Part of me feels like the entire scenario was inappropriately handled, but Brown seemed very happy with how her colleague reacted and helped, so I might be misremembering.
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LibraryThing member mktoronto
I love this book! It ties right into my interest in organizational leadership and authenticity, as well as personal and organizational values. I definitely want to go deeper into this work. Not sure if I will get certified as one of their facilitators but definitely open to the possibility.

Language

Original language

English

Physical description

320 p.

ISBN

8925598914 / 9788925598918
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