The Truth Will Set You Free, But First It Will Piss You Off!: Thoughts on Life, Love, and Rebellion

by Gloria Steinem (Auteur)

Hardcover, 2019

Status

Available

Publication

Random House (2019), 192 pages

Description

"For decades -- and especially now in these times of crisis -- people around the world have found guidance, humor, and unity in Gloria Steinem's gift for creating quotes that inspire action and create hope. From her early days as a journalist and feminist activist, up to today, Steinem's words have helped generations to empower themselves and work together. Gloria sees quotes as 'the poetry of everyday life,' so she also has included a few favorites from friends, including bell hooks, Flo Kennedy, Michelle Obama, and more, in this anthology of quotes that will make you want to laugh, march, and create some of your own. At the end of the book, there is a special space for each reader to add their own quotes and others they've found. Covering topics from relationships ('Many are looking for the right person. Too few are looking to be the right person.') to patriarchy ('Men are liked better when they win. Women are liked better when they lose. This is how patriarchy is enforced every day.') and activism ('Change, like a tree, grows from the bottom up.'), plus an introduction and essays by Steinem, this is the definitive collection of her words on many of the topics that matter most today. The Truth Will Set You Free, But First It Will Piss You Off! is both timeless and timely. It is a gift of hope from Gloria to readers, that they will want to share with friends"--… (more)

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(11 ratings; 4.2)

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LibraryThing member DarthDeverell
In Gloria Steinem’s The Truth Will Set You Free, But First It Will Piss You Off!: Thoughts on Life, Love, and Rebellion she collects several quotes from her writing and public appearances over the years. Steinem curates her chosen quotations into sections focused on family, aging, work, allies
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and adversaries, humor, and activism, using them to make readers think while also pointing out how far we have – or haven’t – progressed since she first said them. She also includes quotes from some of her friends in politics and the culture industries. In her introduction, Steinem describes the relevance of her musings, “We are learning a lot due to the disaster of an unelected president in the White House, from the depth of remaining racism to the unearned economic influence of the wealthy few” (pg. xvii). She expands on this, writing, “The majority in this country are escaping control of old hierarchies of race and gender and more. This means two things: First, we need to be aware of the danger and look after each other. Second, just as we would never tell a woman to go back to a violent household, we too will not go back to the past. We may be about to be free” (pg. xx-xxi). Steinem describes her goal in writing The Truth Will Set You Free, But First It Will Piss You Off!, “I hope you find encouragement and company in this life-time collection of quotes from my speeches, articles, and books, plus some from my friends. I’ve chosen the ones that I hope will be the most useful in arguments, the most comforting in bad times, and the most inspirational when needed, as well as the most likely to lead to laughter” (pg. xxii).

Discussing the importance of family, Steinem writes, “To transform inequality in the outside world, we have to start inside the home. We have to get rid of the old idea that what happens to men is political, and therefore subject to change, but what happens to women is cultural, and therefore can’t, or shouldn’t, be changed” (pg. 6). She points out how we first learn about, and internalize, hierarchies and systemic violence in the home. Turning toward employment, Steinem writes, “Whether we work to live, as most of us do, or live to work, as some of us are lucky enough to do, work doesn’t have to be a four-letter word. It can and should be a source of belonging, growth, and pleasure” (pg. 56). Steinem argues for the importance of connecting with people to develop empathy, writing, “People in the same room can understand and empathize with each other in a way that isn’t possible on the page or screen. I’m happy you are reading this book, but I hope you will also put the book down and spend at least as much time talking and listening to the stories of other human beings” (pg. 87). She offers hope in discussing systemic hierarchies, writing, “People invented race and gender. People can uninvent them” (pg. 106). Furthermore, “The marks of sex and race bring a whole constellation of cultural injunctions against power, even the power of controlling one’s own life” (pg. 106).

In keeping with Steinem’s discussion of the importance of interaction for developing empathy, The Truth Will Set You Free, But First It Will Piss You Off! would work perfectly for a reading group. Steinem’s careful curation and the quotes themselves encourage the reader to give careful thought in relating them to their own life, which would easily foster discussion and consciousness-raising. Samantha Dion Baker’s illustrations work perfectly with Steinem’s words, capturing their meaning and evoking their truths. Both timely and thought-provoking, The Truth Will Set You Free, But First It Will Piss You Off! is a must-read.
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LibraryThing member cherybear
Cool! Quick easy read. Full of quotes original to Gloria, and other of her favorite quotes from friends. Also, short chapters about relationships, rebellion, self esteem, equality, and more.
LibraryThing member SChant
What a strange and pointless book. It contains a few rambling essays about her life as an activist, and the rest is filled with inspirational feminist quotes and slogans, some of them "illustrated" in big, swirly writing. Disappointing.
LibraryThing member thewestwing
This is a great little book with lovely quotes and illustrations. Really thought provoking!

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Physical description

192 p.; 8.53 inches

ISBN

0593132688 / 9780593132685
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