Out Of The Shadows:Understanding Sexual Addiction: Understanding Sexual Addictions

by Patrick J. Carnes

Paperback, 2018

Status

Available

Call number

RECOV Carn

Genres

General Nonfiction

Collection

Michael C. Weidemann LGBT Library at Gay City

Publication

Hazelden Trade (2018), Edition: 3rd Ed, 240 pages

Description

Sex is at the core of our identities. And when it becomes a compulsion, it can unravel our lives. Out of the Shadows is the premier work on this disorder, written by a pioneer in its treatment. Revised and updated to include the latest research--and to address the exploding phenomenon of cybersex addiction--this third edition identifies the danger signs, explains the dynamics, and describes the consequences of sexual addiction and dependency. With practical wisdom and spiritual clarity, it points the way out of the shadows of sexual compulsion and back into the light and fullness of life.

User reviews

LibraryThing member neverstopreading

Overall, this is a quality book that explains sexual addiction and shows sympathy for the addict without ignoring the plight of the victim. The research is scholarly and documented, but the book is accessible for the average person.

Although there are parts of the book designed to help sex addicts,

it is not primarily a therapy book. It does not contain various exercises to help the addict, instead, it refers addicts to the available 12 step programs, which are invaluable.

Its value is helping the sex addict recognize who he is, and that he is not alone in his struggle.

I do not agree with all of his assumptions, including that masturbation is morally neutral. Furthermore, some of the descriptions of sexual acts may arouse some addicts, but there may be no way to fully avoid this problem.

Take what you like, ignore the rest.

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