Somebody I Used to Know

by Wendy Mitchell

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Status

Available

Call number

616.8

Publication

Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Description

Biography & Autobiography. Health & Fitness. Sociology. Nonfiction. HTML:“A brave and illuminating journey inside the mind, heart, and life of a person with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease.”—Lisa Genova, author of Still Alice Wendy Mitchell had a busy job with the British National Health Service, raised her two daughters alone, and spent her weekends running and climbing mountains. Then, slowly, a mist settled deep inside the mind she once knew so well, blurring the world around her. She didn’t know it then, but dementia was starting to take hold. In 2014, at age fifty-eight, she was diagnosed with young-onset Alzheimer’s.  In this groundbreaking book, Mitchell shares the heartrending story of her cognitive decline and how she has fought to stave it off. What lay ahead of her after the diagnosis was scary and unknowable, but Mitchell was determined and resourceful, and she vowed to outwit the disease for as long as she could. As Mitchell learned to embrace her new life, she began to see her condition as a gift, a chance to experience the world with fresh eyes and to find her own way to make a difference. Even now, her sunny outlook persists: She devotes her time to educating doctors, caregivers, and other people living with dementia, helping to reduce the stigma surrounding this insidious disease. Still living independently, Mitchell now uses Post-it notes and technology to remind her of her routines and has created a “memory room” where she displays photos—with labels—of her daughters, friends, and special places. It is a room where she feels calm and happy, especially on days when the mist descends. A chronicle of one woman’s struggle to make sense of her shifting world and her mortality, Somebody I Used to Know offers a powerful rumination on memory, perception, and the simple pleasure of living in the moment. Philosophical, poetic, intensely personal, and ultimately hopeful, this moving memoir is both a tribute to the woman Wendy Mitchell used to be and a brave affirmation of the woman she has become. Praise for Somebody I Used to Know “Remarkable . . . Mitchell gives such clear-eyed insight that anyone who knows a person living with dementia should read this book.”—The Times (London) “A landmark book . . . The best reward for [Mitchell’s] courage and candour would surely be fundamental changes in the way people with dementia are treated by society.”—Financial Times.… (more)

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LibraryThing member Beamis12
I never thought I would be writing a review of a book, where a woman at the age of 58, diagnosed with early onset dementia, and call it the most inspirational story I have ever read. Of course it's not a story, it is a true happening, Wendy's life now, but one she intends to live to the fullest.
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The things she does, how she finds ways around her diminish capacity truly fills me with awe. One particular thing she said really hit home, is incredibly motivating, and that is that she is not suffering from dementia, she is living with dementia. The key word being living, and she is certainly doing that to the best of her abilities.

She can no longer drive, she gets a pink bicycle. She sets alarms on her iPads with things like, take your medicine, eat breakfast, etc. Whatever she can do to make it work for her. She had to retire from her job at The National Health organization, and from experience realizing how little understood and how little help is available to those who like her life a life full of challenges, she travels, with a great deal of preparation, to give talks to students, organizations etc. She was asked to preview the movie, Still Alice, and then invited to attend the premier.

She is a strong woman, a courageous woman, has a blog where she posts her daily challenges, of which there are many, more so as time passes. She has not lost her ability for words yet, which with the help of a ghost writer she was able to share her story. Her teo adult daughters, one now a nurse, are a great source of comfort and assistance. Her greatest fear is how this effects them, and of the day she will no longer recognize those two dear faces. Until then, she will continue to find work arounds, and live her life to the fullest. She is truly awe inspiring.
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LibraryThing member bookwyrmm
A raw, witty, and heart-warming look at young-onset Alzheimer's. Definitely a must for family members of a loved one with dementia.

Language

Original language

English

Original publication date

2018

Physical description

320 p.; 7.76 inches

ISBN

1408893339 / 9781408893333

Barcode

91100000180726

DDC/MDS

616.8
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