Mom and Mum are Getting Married!

by Ken Setterington

Hardcover, 2004

Status

Available

Call number

PZ7 .G43805 Mo 2004

Publication

Second Story Press (2004), 24 pages

Description

"When Rosie finds out that her two mothers are planning to get married, she has only one worry-- will she get to be a flower girl?

User reviews

LibraryThing member AbigailAdams26
Coming home from school one day, Rosie discovers her mother dancing around the living room in pure joy, and learns that her Mom and Mum are getting married. As Rosie angles for a role in the wedding - bridesmaid? flower-girl? ring-bearer? - Mum makes it clear to an excited Nona and Pop that the two
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women just want a quiet, simple ceremony. Then the big day comes, and there is a mix-up with the rings! Luckily, Rosie and Uncle Peter are there to save the day...

Although I agree with some of my fellow reviewers in finding the narrative of Mom and Mum Are Getting Married somewhat stiff, my overall impressions were positive. I liked the fact that Mom and Mum's single-sex relationship was presented in a normal and matter-of-fact way, rather than as a problem or issue. As someone who supports the marriage rights of gay and lesbian people, it goes without saying that I approved of the storyline itself. I also really appreciated the subtle way that Setterington highlighted the common experiences of all couples (and their families) when involved in a wedding: the conflicts (very mild here) with parents about the type of ceremony to have, the role of young relatives, and the almost catastrophes of the day itself. Finally, I found Alice Priestley's illustrations very appealing, particularly the two-page spread at the end, where everyone is blowing bubbles!

There's nothing earth-shattering here, but as one of only a handful of books that sends a positive message about same-sex parents, marriage, and families, I highly recommend it to all!
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LibraryThing member Carlathelibrarian
This is a story about a little girl whose two mothers are getting married. I loved that this book makes this a normal situation and the daughter, Rosie, is only concerned about whether or not she can be a flower girl in the wedding. There are no judgmental characters or anyone that questions this
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as anything other than two people in love with children getting married. Rosie is a smart little girl and manages to convince her mom and mum that she and her brother can carry the rings and drop petals without any problems. The illustrations in this book are beautiful, done in such a way to look as if they've been done using coloured or watercolour pencils. There are full page pictures white pages featuring the text. The text is well-spaced out with bits of dialogue made obvious, which makes it a good book for young readers that are just beginning to try out longer books. There is a lot of text on some of the pages, but it should still hold the interest of children ages 4 and up. This would be a great book to read to children when they are learning about different types of families. The publisher generously provided me with a copy of this book via Netgalley.
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LibraryThing member lquilter
A sweet same-sex marriage, lesbian mom book; bonus, a subtly depicted gay interracial couple, and a couple of other people of color in the family. The story was told from the perspective of the young daughter of a couple, who have decided to get married: She gets to be a flower girl, help her moms
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get over being nervous, and shepherds her preschool-age baby brother through his flower-child duties.

I used this one to help my 3.5yo prepare for her flower girl role in my sister's (straight) wedding -- it made her much more excited about it.
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LibraryThing member oddball2003
Rosie is so excited to find out her Mom and Mum will be getting married soon! She starts to wonder, what will it be like to be flower girl? What will her little brother Jack be doing in the wedding? What kind of dress will she get to wear?

This book celebrates the love between two people, no matter
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what their gender, and their families. This story follows Rosie and her family as they prepare for a small ceremony, and welcome their guests on their extra special day!

I found this book to be well-written, with soft, simple illustrations. It was the perfect age-appropriate way to introduce daughter to same sex couples. This is one that she reaches for every once in a while for bedtime, and I look forward to it gaining a deeper meaning as she grows older.

I received a copy of this book for review purposes. Opinions are honest, and my own.
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LibraryThing member rdg301library
When Rosie finds out that Mom and Mum are getting married, she is worried about getting an important part in the wedding. She really wants to be a flower girl, but Mom says that the wedding has to be small. Mom and Mum’s wedding day finally gets here and Rosie gets an important part after all.
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This story depicts events occurring in everyday life. It is beneficial because the idea of same-sex parents is not the focus point. The book presents the idea of same-sex parents in a very accepting manner. This book would be very helpful with introducing the idea of nontraditional families.

Realistic Fiction
Reading Level: 2.7
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Awards

Language

Original language

English

Original publication date

2004

Physical description

24 p.; 8.81 x 8.77 inches

ISBN

1896764843 / 9781896764849
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