Loving Guidance: Setting The Limits Without Guilt

Audio CD Transcript of Loving Guidance: Setting limits without guilt Loving Guidance: Setting limits without guilt Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative Power of Knowledge Power of Self-Control No one can make you angry without your consent "I am going to" Take back your power Power of Attention Power of Relationship Set Patterns What you focus on is what you get more of "Thank you" vs "You opened the door for me so I could come inside, that was helpful Predictable routines create safety Routines create patterns Patterns create predictability Predictability creates safety Children have no inner voice Children think in patterns and pictures Sustain your energy Reliance on love Move away from discipline out of fear Change your mind The motivation to behave comes from relationships Change "get my child to" to "help my child to be more likely to chose"