Barking to the Choir: The Power of Radical Kinship

by Gregory Boyle

Hardcover, 2017

Status

Available

Description

"In a moving example of unconditional love in difficult times, the Jesuit priest and bestselling author of Tattoos on the Heart, Gregory Boyle, shares what three decades of working with gang members in Los Angeles has taught him about faith, compassion, and the enduring power of kinship. In his first book, ... Gregory Boyle introduced us to Homeboy Industries, the largest gang-intervention program in the world. Critics hailed that book as an 'astounding literary and spiritual feat' (Publishers Weekly) that is 'destined to become a classic of both urban reportage and contemporary spirituality' (Los Angeles Times). Now, after the successful expansion of Homeboy Industries, Boyle returns with Barking to the Choir to reveal how compassion is transforming the lives of gang members. In a nation deeply divided and plagued by poverty and violence, Barking to the Choir offers a snapshot into the challenges and joys of life on the margins. Sergio, arrested at nine, in a gang by twelve, and serving time shortly thereafter, now works with the substance-abuse team at Homeboy to help others find sobriety. Jamal, abandoned by his family when he tried to attend school at age seven, gradually finds forgiveness for his schizophrenic mother. New father Cuco, who never knew his own dad, thinks of a daily adventure on which to take his four-year-old son. These former gang members uplift the soul and reveal how bright life can be when filled with unconditional love and kindness. This book is guaranteed to shake up our ideas about God and about people with a glimpse at a world defined by more compassion and fewer barriers. Gently and humorously, Barking to the Choir invites us to find kinship with one another and reconvinces us all of our own goodness."--Dust jacket flaps.… (more)

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LibraryThing member nmele
Gregory Boyle SJ told so many tales so well in his first book that I could not imagine this second one would be as powerful, but it is. Boyle hold up for our regard the hard earned wisdom and insights of the former gang members who form his community. In his introduction, he sets the tone when he
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notes that anger never leads anyone to unclench their fist but love is the only thing that can unclench a fist.
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LibraryThing member keylawk
Father Boyle has witnessed hundreds of violent incidents among members of his parish in Los Angeles. He has officiated at hundreds of funerals of people he knew and loved, shot often inadvertently, during gun battles.

Working with gangs, Father Boyle has started businesses -- so that young men and
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women have a source of income, pride, and common interests. Proposal for "radical kinship".

I am studying this model. Just for his love, imagination, and hard work in the face of intimidation and temptation, I would give him the highest FIVE STAR rating.
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LibraryThing member bowedbookshelf
This book radiates such loving-kindness, one wishes everyone could share in the bounty. I had not heard of Boyle’s 2009 No. 1 bestseller, called Tattoos on the Heart: The Power of Boundless Compassion, before I heard Krista Tippett interview Father Boyle for her podcast On Being. This second book
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is a series of true stories about the gang members, former convicts, drug dealers and addicts Father Boyle knows from his ministry, Homeboy Industries, in Los Angeles. Each anecdote carries with it a reminder of the burdens people carry, a prod to do better in our lives, and something small (or big) to meditate on.

A highlight of this book are Boyle’s pointing to and holding up some of the homies’ mangling of common phrases—phrases so ordinary to many of us that we rush by them, never stopping to think them through carefully. By misunderstanding phrases only heard and never read, the homies sometimes hit upon a better, deeper meaning that speaks to their experiences, e.g., “I’m at a pitchfork in my life.”

Father Boyle is following the teaching of the Dalai Lama, Pope Francis, Dorothy Day, Mother Theresa, and every other effective practitioner of faith and loving-kindness on earth by going with the exhortation to “Stay Close to the Poor.” He discusses this in his usual discursive style near the end of this book, asking
“Is God inclusive or exclusive?…In the end, though, the measure of our compassion with what Martin Luther King calls ‘the last, the least, and the lost’ lies less in our service to those on the margins, and more in our willingness to see ourselves in kinship with them.”
Radical kinship. If you’ve ever experienced a blast of radical kinship—an openhearted, limitless generosity—you will know it is transformative. And that is where Father Boyle is going.

There are no bad people, only bad actions. We’re all in a stage of becoming. We all are equally able to find grace and create the kind of environment we seek, if given a place to rest and to experience love without expectation of return.
“We are charged not with obliterating our diversity and difference but instead with heightening our connection to each other.”
This is his answer to reconciling diversity and connectedness. It is often thought that the more diverse we are, the less we have in common, the less we can come together over shared goals. This book tells a different story.

Father Boyle’s book about gang members in L.A. finding a place of peace to gather their thoughts together is the antidote to a political world in which power and money are operative goals. We’d all like a little more power, to live as we like without anybody else’s say so, but sometimes the lack of power is the key to humility, and thus to a wide and deep world of loving-kindness. But as Boyle tells Terry Gross in a Fresh Air interview: “Prayer is not going to fix our healthcare system. Stop it. Don’t think that. You actually have to do something about guns, you can’t just pray.”

This is powerful stuff, folks, and will be my gift to family and friends at this year-end. When you get your own copy, look carefully at the author photo on the inside back jacket. Have you ever seen a group of people more radiant in your lives?
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LibraryThing member hazel1123
“God is too busy loving you to be disappointed in you.” This is just one of the statements in this marvelous book that asks (calls) me to be the person God knows I am and then to live in the joy of this love. I’m buying several copies of this book to give to my friends. 5 stars all around.
LibraryThing member vpfluke
Our parish, St. Joseph's Episcopal Church, read this books as part of its book club. It's a remarkable story Father Greg Boyle and his indomitable work with gangs in central and eastern Los Angeles. Boyle is a Jesuit and pastor of the Dolores Mission Roman Catholic Church. His mission is to help
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point the direction of gang members away from crime by providing alternatives. Boyle loves this work. It is a tragedy that he has buried 220 gang members over the course of 2-3 decades.
Many of our Episcopal parish in Durham, NC, found it to be an affecting story and were glad that they red it. One gets the feeling that the situation of gang violence is worse than in New York where I worked for 20 years.
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ISBN

1476726159 / 9781476726151

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