Always Looking Up: The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist

by Michael J. Fox

Hardcover, 2008

Status

Available

Call number

791.43028092

Collection

Publication

Hyperion (2009), Edition: First Edition, 288 pages

Description

The popular film and television actor evaluates the personal philosophy that has enabled his positive outlook in spite of his battle with degenerative Parkinson's disease, in an uplifting account that considers how he has become a happier and more satisfied person by recognizing the gifts of everyday life.

User reviews

LibraryThing member manadabomb
Fox intrigues me simply because he went the opposite direction with his Parkinson's diagnosis than my dad did with his. After reading this book, I'm more impressed than ever. Fox began exhibiting symptoms of PD when he was 29 but brushed them off as overexertion. The actual PD diagnosis brought a
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some depression and a time of keeping it to himself. He continued to act on Spin City until the symptoms just couldn't be contained anymore.

This book is divided up into 4 sections: Work, Politics, Faith, Family. These are the 4 areas of his life that keep him going. The Work section describes his decision to give up his acting career and basically step aside. What he didn't know at the time was that he would create a Foundation that would take the place of his acting career. Fox created the Michael J Fox Foundation to fund research to cure PD. He eventually wants his Foundation to go out of business because that would mean that PD was cured.

The Politics section describes how he placed himself in the arena to advocate on the behalf of the millions of PD patients and the millions of other patients who could benefit from stem cell research. He has crisscrossed the country backing politicians who support stem cell research without regard for party lines (he can safely take a stand as the MJF Foundation receives no government funding. Chris Reeve couldn't because his Foundation did receive government funding). Most people will probably remember the Rush controversy, ie. Rush making an ass of himself by mocking Fox's commercial for Claire Gaskill and saying that Fox is acting or deliberately not taking his medicine. I remember being pissed because I knew how bad PD is WITH medicine. How Fox looked in his commercial looked like a good day.

The Faith sections expounds on Fox's childhood religious views (there weren't many) and how things have evolved since marrying Tracy, who is Jewish. They raised their children as Jewish but Fox has kept an open mind about all regligious aspects, being more curious than anything.

The last section delves into his Family. He talks about his kids, how they bond and how they handle "Shaky Dad".

Fox is a good storyteller and makes you laugh about the issues he has had to deal with having PD. It's a nice change because as I said, my dad has taken the opposite tack. No humor with lots of self-pity.

Fox's story is inspiring and the work he has done for stem cell research is amazing. His Foundation, in the short time it's been open, has done more for stem cell research and PD research than any other Foundation or government-sponsored program. With Obama as POTUS now and having lifted the ban on stem cell research, Fox may get his wish of having to close his Foundation down.
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LibraryThing member indygo88
I just finished reading this more or less on the heels of reading Fox's earlier memoir, Lucky Man, and thus it's a little hard not to compare the two. Whereas the previous memoir detailed more of Michael J. Fox's growing up years, his rise to stardom, and his diagnosis of Parkinson's disease, this
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one is more reflective of the years following that time period. In it, he talks more about his work and efforts in furthering awareness and funding for Parkinson's disease, the politics associated with that, some of his religious and spiritual influences, and the importance of his wife and children. I found this book a little dry in parts compared to Lucky Man, more so in the beginning, but about halfway through I fell under Fox's spell again. The audiobook is especially nice, as listening to Michael read his own memoir is a pleasure.
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LibraryThing member Ti99er
This is a follow-up memoir to Fox’s first book Lucky Man (I have yet to read this one). This book is primarily focused on the last 10 years of his life. It is an interesting look at the man within the body of a Parkinson’s diseased body. I find it enlightening to see just how optimistic he is
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in light of his predicament. While reading this book I never once sensed any “woe is me” vibes, but rather he seems to have an “it is what it is” attitude to life. I can’t say; faced by similar circumstances, that I would be able to have the same positive attitude that embodies Michael J. Fox.

The meat of the story involves the creation and management of the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research. Here we are shown a sampling of the inner workings of a not for profit organization.

Fox also spends time discussing the end of his full-time acting career. He explains how he left Spin City without regret and on his own terms, which has allowed him to play sporadic walk-on rolls in shows such as Scrubs, Boston Legal, and Rescue Me.

In the final section of the book, Michael talks about the love he has for his family. He recounts a few stories of his own childhood as well as those of his wife and children. It is clear to the reader that he is a loving father and husband and that he won’t allow PD to get in the way of that.
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LibraryThing member jlcarroll
Even if you don't see eye to eye with Fox on politics, stemcell research or faith (perhaps "spirituality" is a better word), it's easy to enjoy the wit and optimism of a man who sees his disability as a gift. Certainly, he lives comfortably, courtesy of fame, but he also has a striking passion for
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using his resources to effect change he believes in. That's more than many of us can say.

And, for a guy who never graduated high school, his writing will amaze you. I'm sure he had a good editor, but the text is fluid, refined and clearly all Fox.
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LibraryThing member whitewavedarling
First, if you're even remotely somewhat curious, this book is highly recommended. Fox is an amazing example of a person who's been able to not only confront and deal with adversity, but use it to excel and better the world around him while still enjoying the day to day world around him, and family
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especially.

This is a touching and memorable book from Fox, moving from where his first book ended to document his journey as actor, activist, and family man over the last fifteen years or so. I should say here that you certainly don't have to have read his first book to get something out of this one, though his first is a good read as well. This book is a fast read, and Fox's voice and writing are humorous and honest throughout, allowing for plenty of memorable anecdotes in regard to all aspects of his life. The book is split into four sections on Politics, Family, Religion, and Work (not in that order). Each one is well worth the read. For me, the most memorable section was the family section, but then perhaps that's because I'm about to get married and we're starting to think about kids. Certainly, I'd recommend this section to any parent or parent-to-be, but the full book is worth reading and passing on. For anyone in a multi-faith family, Fox's account of being non-Jewish within a Jewish family and congregation is not only touching, but also gives an interesting look into the contemporary practice of religion in the United States (the section goes into other practices other than Judaism also). Of course, it goes without saying that anyone interested in the state of Parkinsons, non-profit medical research, or stem cell research will have an interest in Fox's life and work, but this book goes far beyond those boundaries, and is beautifully written on top of it.

In the end, if you have any interest in memoirs or Michael J. Fox, this book is worth reading. His detailing of Parkinsons and his optimism about life and the future are touching and contageous. I cried quitea few times while reading this book, but laughed more. It's worth a look.
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LibraryThing member Berly
I remember as my grandfather got older, that he walked stooped over, with slow shuffling steps. But what I remember most was the twinkle in his eye. He had Parkinson’s and that twinkle told me “Heh! I am still in here, let’s play.” I loved my grandpa and I loved [[Michael J Fox]]’s new
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book, [Always Looking Up, The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist]. MJF’s dry humor and warm intelligence lead us through his life over the past eight years through four lenses: Work, Politics, Faith and Family. His journey reminds me slightly of the path of a medicated Parkinson’s patient “these steps are rapid, wide, and looping, with a dramatic lurching from side to side corrected by the occasional backward step….the trip may take the dyskinetic patient to each corner of the room and into contact with every wall and windowsill before he or she reaches the door, takes several stabs at the doorknob, finally finds purchase, and flings it open.” (p. 123) MJF touches on so many aspects of his life, and when the door is “opened” at the end of the book? MJF is a happy soul and I am glad to have traversed the room with him. There is no embarrassment in his journey and much joy. I even liked the section on politics (a topic sure to depress me most days). I am left with two uplifting memories: MJF headed off to the polls during the recent election with a t-shirt emblazoned with “Barrack to the Future” and his adoring kids calling him with great affection “Shaky Dad.” We simply have to find a way to fund and increase stem cell research. So many people’s lives will be positively impacted. Worth reading!
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LibraryThing member bibliophileofalls
Although I found the first 2/3 fairly boring, there were definitely some humorous moments and the last 1/3 which was primarity about Fox's family was very touching and entertaining. He is really optimistic throughout and his foundation surely has advanced the research on the prevention and
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treatment of PD.
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LibraryThing member momsnotall
I like the title to this book, Always Looking Up: The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist. It makes me smile, I think partially it is a wanting smile. I want to always be looking up even though i know it is only a title to a book and that there is no way Michael J. Fox is looking up all the time
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surely he must get down in the dumps at times, I want to always bounce back from my troubles with an optimistic attitude.
Which is sort of what this book is about, sure it is a memoir of the last decade of Michael's life living with Parkinson's Disease but at it's heart it is about rolling with the punches. Taking the life you are given, accepting it and making it your own. Being an optimist doesn't mean you never have doubt it just means you don't let the doubt win, you think about it regroup and decide how to deal with it, that is what Michael J Fox has been doing for the last 10 years. He has been dealing with life and as long as you know everything will be OK then you will truly be OK.
Michael has a witty down-to-Earth writing style that is uplifting and comfortable. His books make me happy and although Always Looking Up pretty much brought us up to the current time I really can't wait for the next one, whenever that may be.
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LibraryThing member ronda73ca
Michael J. Fox has written an insightful, uplifting memoir. His battle with Parkinson's Disease, although not easy, leaves readers with hope. Humor, heartwarming stories about his children, and interesting encounters with supportive acquaintances and famous friends makes this a wonderful and
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endearing read. A rather lengthy section covers politics and its role in stem cell research - very detailed and long - an important chapter, but rather drawn out. Although it is not the main point of the book - it is the emphasis. Without political backing, stem cell research will continue to be vetoed by our government, and as Michael points out, many people's lives are at stake.
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LibraryThing member GlennBell
This is an interesting biography due to Michael J. Fox's fame, Parkinson's Disease, and political efforts to obtain funding for stem cell research. I am impressed with his story of common sense, inner strength, and humor.
LibraryThing member caro488
"I've made the most from the head start one gains from being underestimated."

Fox, Michael J., Always Looking Up, Part two of his autobiography - lots more politics than I ever wanted to know, setting up a foundation to find a cure in ten years, the effects of Parkinson's, his incurable optimism,
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his super-supportive wife...
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LibraryThing member LShanna
An articulate and inspirational look at Parkinson's, spirituality, and fatherhood. Fox's celebrity was a small footnote, and that's the way it seems to be in his life. How refreshing!
LibraryThing member KHusser
Fox’s biography picks up where his 2002 book, Lucky Man left off. The reader gets an inside view of Fox’s eighteen year battle with his neurological disorder, Parkinson’s disease, and his efforts to form the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research.

The tone is very upbeat, but
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not without the detailed political process the actor took to be able to create an environment for research for neurological patients. Detailed descriptions of Michael’s daily “medical regime,” intense personal limitations, and love for his family are sprinkled throughout stories of meeting Lance Armstrong, Muhammad Ali, and our new President.

If you enjoy stories of success in the midst of adversity or enjoy a good, solid read about the inner workings of political campaigns and what makes them tick, Fox’s book is for you.
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LibraryThing member LVassmer
I started reading this book entirely unaware that Michael J. Fox had written a previous one. Luckily for me this did not matter in the end although I've now put his first book on my wishlist.

This book is uplifting, inspiring and informative. There is a lot of time spent on the politics of building
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a foundation, but it is done in an entertaining way. The part that hit home for me was his descriptions of his Parkinson's symptoms and how his outward appearance seemed so mismatched with his mind. Through all of that he gives an optimistic view (as the title would suggest) of life in a way that is meant to inspire.

I highly recommend this book. It is humorous and heart-wrenching all at the same time.
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LibraryThing member dgmlrhodes
This was a very moving book. In it, Michael describes four pillars in his life: Work, Politics, Faith,and Family. Michael talks about living with Parkinsons disease and based upon his description, he has coped with this terrible disease with grace and humor.

Personally, I found the last half of the
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book much better. The first half talks about Michael giving up his career and how he got involved in the politics associated with stem cell research. While very enlightening and interesting, the back half was more in alignment of the image I have always held about Michael J Fox.

Overall very interesting-however, be forewarned there are political and religious views expressed, which can cause heated debate!
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LibraryThing member BoundTogetherForGood
Fox wrote his first book, Lucky Man, in 2001. This is another refletive look at his life, a decade later. The title is a bit of a joke and also a personal statement. It declares that fact that he feels he is an uncurable optimist but also pokes fun at the fact that his stature tends to make it a
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necessity for him to do so!

Fox's writing style is friendly. Reading it is like listening to him thoughtfully consider his life's experiences. He is open and honest. He doesn't appear to believe he has all the answers but he does attempt to work with what he has to make life all that it can be.

Diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease in 1991, his story can't be written without considering how it affects him and his family. This book is set up in four separate chronologically ordered parts:

Work, Politics, Faith, Family

In "Work" he explores the experiences of his career over the past decade or so. He made a conscious decision to retire before he allowed his health to ruin his career. By choosing to step into an early retirement he was able to do it on his terms and is still able to choose to step back into acting for isolated periods of time, again, on his own terms. Choosing retirement has allowed him to focus on life and living well. Parkinson's has insinuated itself into his life in such a way that it has not only caused him to step away from acting, it has, in a way, become his career. Parkinson's affects not only a person's ability to move or not move, it also affects a person's ability to show emotion. Being an actor with Parkinson's Disease means having to work with and around his medications to find the moments which will allow him to do what he has always done best, entertain.

In "Politics" he explores the impact that politics and policy have had in his life. In an effort to raise funds and inspire further research toward a cure for Parkinson's Disease he created the Michael J. Fox Foundation in 2000. This portion of the book explores his role in the foundation; it also does a good job of explaining his well-thought-out support of stem cell research. In fact, I believe it spoke to me more clearly and thoughtfully than anything on the subject has.

Fox hopes to be clearly understood. He is no expert on Parkinson's Disease; he has been afflicted with it but has also been blessed with many resources which may be used to find a cure more quickly than otherwise. He appears to believe that "to whom much is given, much is expected."

He says "I acknowledge the fact that my own views are subjective. I have a stake in this argument that some may fairly say disqualifies me from giving both sides of the argument equal weight. You yourself may have thoughtfully considered the issue and arrived at the conclusion that embryonic stem cell research is wrong and that, at the very least, it is not something you want the government to support. As frustrated as we in the patient community are with impediments to progress put in place by George W. Bush, so too are you frustrated that we, the proponents, just don't get it, that we're missing the bigger picture. In that way, we two can empathize with each other, while not agreeing. This is why I brought into the political arena my concerns and my hopes that this work can produce cures and treatments, not to shame or ridicule those who disagree with me, and not to use the bully pulpit of celebrity to drown out anyone elsee's voice. The opposite is true. What we want is a conversation."

To sum up Fox's view regarding the use of stem cells in researach I will let him speak for himself, as he does in this book:

"Mr. Bush favors a ban on stem cell research, one aide said, 'because of his pro-life views.' Yet stem cell research has nothing to do with abortion... (It) uses undifferentiated cells extracted from embryos just a few days old - embryos produced during in vitro fertilization... Currently, more than 100,000 embryos are frozen in storage. Most of these microscopic clumps of cells are destined to be destroyed - ending any potential for life... Support for stem-cell research comes not just from pro-choice Democrats like Al Gore but also from Republicans who have concluded, in the words of former Senator Bob Dole, that supporting such researc is 'the pro-life position to take.' ... One hopes that between now and next Tuesday, Mr. Bush will explain to those of us with debilitating diseases - indeed, to all of us - why it is more pro-life to throw away stem cells than to put them to work saving lives."

Being presented with the argument in that form gives me pause. Previously I have expressed that I felt the use of stem cells from embryos was wrong. I don't feel it is any less wrong, however, to discard the cells in denial of the fact that they were created and do, indeed, exist, with the potential of becoming human beings if placed into a woman's uterus. Has science done us a dis-service? In the effort to provide childless couples with babies, an abundance of embryos are being created, in numbers too great for use. When these embryos are adopted or used by their natural parents for in vitro fertilization, the babies are known as "Snowflake Babies." Destroying those embryos does not seem a morally acceptable choice. But it is right to sacrifice them to possibly improve the health and lives of innumerable people?

I just don't know. I do not, though, think the issue is as simple as I did before reading this book. It isn't a simple issue. It warrants further debate and consideration I believe.

Later in the book Fox notes that eventually "the President would allow the research to continue. While certainly good news on its surface, key elements of the new policy were troubling and raised yellow flags, if not red ones quite yet. Qualifications limited all researchers to only sixty existing self-replicating colonies of stem cells, known as 'cell lines.'" This sounds like good news for those promoting stem cell research. Actually, the number of cell lines is disputable. Some have been tainted by non-human proteins used in other research, typically those of mice. Many of the cell lines are also privately owned and the owners may be reticent to share that which they may claim as their property. Fox does not delve much deeper into the science or terminology than this. It is my recommendation that anyone who wishes to learn even more about the science of cells in the laboratory read the well written book "The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks" which I recently reviewed.

Fox goes on to note that "Commonly overshadowed by the dispute over embryonic stem cells is the near-consensus on the fundamentals. We agree on the ethical guidelines; we are against egg farming, against human reproductive cloning, and emphatically for Snowflake Babies. Our sole dissagreement hinges on our opposition to destroying frozen embroys that could be used in research to save lives."

"Faith" explains his belief that faith is synonymous with hope, directly related to the optimism that he carries throughout life. With regard to formal religion though, Fox hasn't quite found one that suits him. While choosing to raise their children in Tracy's faith, as Jews, he fits in there but is not a "consistent and obedient disciple of any one big 'F' Faith." He describes himself as "too blessed to be strictly agnostic, I have come to adhere to an ethical code informed by the major monotheistic disciplines: 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you,' 'Judge not lest ye yourself be judged,' and at least a half dozen of the Commandments. "

In "Family" Fox describes events that have affected his nuclear and extended family over the recent decade. He and his wife, Tracy, even decided to have a fourth child, knowing that he would be more present for this baby's young life than he was when their three odler children were born. Ultimately, he explains that he and his wife "give more to each other than Parkinson's could ever take away." His book explores his family's loss of his oldest sister, Karen, to whom this book is dediated, and who for years struggled with epilepsy. He speaks of strong and lasting friendships with Robin Williams, Lance Armstrong and Muhammad Ali, among others. His love of each of their four children runs deep. He devotes a small section of his writing to describe each of the kids and their natural inclinations and talents. The description of their youngest daughter, Esme, brought to mind, for me, the young girl Anna about whom the book Mr. God This is Anna was written as well as our own free-spirited daughter who is currently four years old.

Fox uses this quote in his book: "A short actor stands on a box, but a short movie star has everyone else stand in a ditch." Fox may be short but he is not the type of man who needs to make others smaller than himself in order to stand tall. Ultimately, he has earned my respect and maintains it through his thoughtfulness in his actions.
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LibraryThing member librarybrandy
Eh, what can I say? Michael J Fox is a likeable guy, personable and funny. This is his second memoir, and focuses more on particular things--faith, family, politics, not in that order--than a general This Is Who I Am kind of thing. Enjoyable, if brief. (A note on the audio: he narrates this
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himself, and he's entertaining to listen to.)
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LibraryThing member TheBoltChick
This is an inspiring memoir by a very personable man. He describes his battle over the years with Parkinsons disease, and his subsequent effort to establish his foundation in an attempt to find a cure. He divides the book into four pillars of existence: Work, Politics, Faith, and Family. His
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writing style is so warm and friendly, the reader feels as if they are sitting with him as he casually tells a story. While telling of his struggles, he never fails to see the humor when it is there. Always Looking Up is both a joke because of his height, and a mantra because of his outlook on life.
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LibraryThing member okjlsaz
Michael J. Fox has managed to make an incredible life as he adjusted to Parkinson's disease. He has a wonderful family to help support him as he grows older and, hopefully, wiser.
LibraryThing member Laurie.Schultz
This was truly a great book. It was poignant, funny and most of all inspiring. I loved every aspect of it, from hearing about Michael's television career, to the founding of the Michael J. Fox Foundation and finally to his becoming a political activist. I admire his humor, his courage, his strength
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and most of all his unfailingly positive outlook on life. I recommend this book highly and I think Michael J. Fox is an inspiration....
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LibraryThing member jimocracy
I've always liked Michael J Fox but it was especially nice to read insights to his life from his own words. this was an endearing book and I'm glad I took the time to read it. MJF is inspiring and courageous; not to mention witty.
LibraryThing member jessibud2
[Always Looking Up] by Michael J. Fox. I really loved this book. Fox is such an inspiring person, down to earth, and just a decent guy. He divided this book into 4 sections: Work, Politics, Faith, and Family and each is filled with anecdotes, personal involvement, and thoughtfulness. He is
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articulate, funny (as you would expect) and exudes optimism, in the face of what most of us, I dare say, would consider daunting odds.

For a man who got a diagnosis of Parkinson's Disease at the age of 29, newly married with an infant son, and a thriving very public career, one might not expect *optimism* to be the first thing that comes to mind. He is very candid about the fact that denial played a part in the early years, but he is equally candid about the ways in which he surrounded himself with the right people who helped him along the way to turn his attention to action, to taking and playing the cards he was dealt and using what he had to do something positive and constructive with his life and future. He says that not many people get the opportunity to make a real difference in the world and that he views this opportunity that he has with gratitude.

Fox is a man of integrity, and grace. He quoted his good friend, the late Christopher Reeve, who believed in the formula of "optimism + information = hope".

I highly recommend this book. It's an easy read but also a delightful and insightful one.
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LibraryThing member Arkrayder
In my opinion, Michael J. Fox doesn't come across as preaching or seems to have the attitude of "I'm better than you" or "Woe is me, feel sorry for me." So that made the reading of this book much easier. An interesting autobiography from a seemingly down to earth man who has gone through a lot and
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has seen the silver lining.
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LibraryThing member SESchend
If you want to read a great book by a heartfelt and honest optimist, give this a read.

This follow-up memoir to Fox's LUCKY MAN is even better than its predecessor. Relentlessly first person, Fox lets you into his head on matters of life, politics, faith, and family. While his Parkinson's disease
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is ever part of the equation, his deft humor remains the constant in this book. Don't go looking for behind-the-scenes info on Hollywood or acting here; this book is tightly focused on Fox's personal life and public life as a spokesperson for stem cell research.

Well crafted, engaging, and an easy read, I've got even more respect for MJF than I did before I picked this up on a whim.
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LibraryThing member CurioCollective
Loved this. The honesty, the integrity despite illness, and the courage shine through. Definitely a good read. Looking forward to "Lucky Man"..

Awards

Grammy Award (Winner — 2010)

Language

Original language

English

Original publication date

2010-03-30

Physical description

288 p.; 5.5 inches

ISBN

9781401303389

Local notes

Located in Bios and Memoirs (FO)
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