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A READ WITH JENNA TODAY SHOW BOOK CLUB PICK A BELLETRIST BOOK CLUB PICK NAMED A MOST ANTICIPATED BOOK BY New York Times Time Marie Claire Elle Buzzfeed Huffington Post Good Housekeeping The Week Goodreads New York Post Publishers Weekly and many more "This is a true beach read! You can't put it down!" ? Jenna Bush Hager, Today Show Book Club Pick "Powerful . . . A twisting tale of love, loss, and dark family secrets." ? Paula Hawkins, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Girl on the Train and Into the Water A poignant and suspenseful drama that untangles the complicated ties binding three women?two sisters and their mother?in one Chinese immigrant family and explores what happens when the eldest daughter disappears, and a series of family secrets emerge, from the New York Times bestselling author of Girl in Translation It begins with a mystery. Sylvie, the beautiful, brilliant, successful older daughter of the Lee family, flies to the Netherlands for one final visit with her dying grandmother?and then vanishes. Amy, the sheltered baby of the Lee family, is too young to remember a time when her parents were newly immigrated and too poor to keep Sylvie. Seven years older, Sylvie was raised by a distant relative in a faraway, foreign place, and didn't rejoin her family in America until age nine. Timid and shy, Amy has always looked up to her sister, the fierce and fearless protector who showered her with unconditional love. But what happened to Sylvie? Amy and her parents are distraught and desperate for answers. Sylvie has always looked out for them. Now, it's Amy's turn to help. Terrified yet determined, Amy retraces her sister's movements, flying to the last place Sylvie was seen. But instead of simple answers, she discovers something much more valuable: the truth. Sylvie, the golden girl, kept painful secrets . . . secrets that will reveal more about Amy's complicated family?and herself?than she ever could have imagined. A deeply moving story of family, secrets, identity, and longing, Searching for Sylvie Lee is both a gripping page-turner and a sensitive portrait of an immigrant family. It is a profound exploration of the many ways culture and language can divide us and the impossibility of ever truly knowing someone?especially those we love.… (more)
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In alternating chapters we hear from Amy, Sylvie herself and their mother. Changing views of Sylvie are revealed from her own words. There are many family secrets, and a suspected hidden treasures passed down from mother to daughter. Jealousy, and its ill effects, an ugliness that spreads. The struggle for immigrants to assimilate. Yet, I had trouble connecting to the characters. We do find out what happened to Sylvie and why, though I didn't feel I was given enough reasons to find the ending credible.
The book fluctuates between chapters detailing Amy’s search for Sylvie and Sylvie telling her story starting a month earlier when she leaves for the Netherlands and occasionally a chapter from their mother’s point of view. The character development in this book is very good and I cared about this family. The author does a particularly good job of detailing the cultural differences and problems this immigrant family faced and the racism shown to the Chinese in the Netherlands. But I was disappointed in some respects and felt parts of the books were too much like a soap opera. I did not feel that the ending rang true at all and it felt out of place to me.
This book was given to me by the publisher in return for an honest review.
quickly.
I enjoyed Girl in Translation more than this book. I felt it could have been shorter, and I did weary of all the rabbit holes we went down to discover what happened to Sylvie.
My thanks to LibraryThing and the publisher for this ARC.
This is a wonderful book,
Just loved it- story, characters, writing style, everything.
Those of you who like Lisa See books will love this one.
Look forward to reading more by this author.
Highly recommend it.
As Amy, Sylvie's sister, says to Filip, the musician who knew Sylvie and has come to Amy, "It is sad how trauma gets passed down from generation to generation. Helena, my own ma and pa: they taught us to keep our heads low, to hold our secrets as closed as an oyster. Keep ourselves apart from everyone else. At a certain point, you wind up dividing yourself internally into so many different people you do not even know who you are anymore." For Sylvie, she was no longer a granddaughter (grandma had passed), no longer a wife (her marriage had disintegrated), no longer an employee (she had been fired), no longer needed by her sister (Amy was now an adult). For Sylvie, the time had arrived to embrace a long ago prophecy and the time had come for the family to expose the secrets and begin to heal.
I received my copy of this novel through LibraryThing's Early Reader program.
I did like Kwok’s use of different voices to tell the story and the way the original language structure was preserved for each of the different languages they spoke. I think it helped build tension and convey distance between the characters.
The characters felt real. They were fully developed and flawed. There was also considerable character growth
The narrative style further helped me to get to know these women. Amy and Sylvie took turns doing most of the narration, though their mother occasionally took part, and each woman had a distinctive voice. Sylvie's storytelling begins a month before her disappearance while Amy and their mother pick up about the time Sylvie goes missing. The alternating points of view also served as an effective way to unravel the mystery.
The settings, primarily the Netherlands but also Queens, Brooklyn Heights, and Venice, were brought to life and felt a bit like characters in their own right.
However, what I appreciated most was the way the story incorporated real life issues such as obstacles immigrants face and struggles women sometimes deal with in the workplace. There was domestic drama too, showing the power of secrets to either destroy or heal a family.
Though this is the first book I've read by this author, it will not be the last. I would recommend it to those who enjoy mysteries or even just a good story.
Thank you to NetGalley for the E-ARC.
Well, if dogs could prey, it would rain bones.
But those who wish to eat honey must suffer the sting of the bees.
If one often walks
They add so much to the flavor of Kwok's third novel. But this is a decidedly different sort of novel from her other two, both of which I have read and enjoyed. This one is a dark, suspenseful mystery. I very much appreciate when a good novelist writes different sorts of books. So many seem to write books that are so similar.
This book is about an immigrant family with inter-generational secrets and takes place in New York City and The Netherlands. Kwok paints a picture with every scene she describes. Her characters are very well developed, and experience growth and change over time.
Sylvie's childhood was with her grandmother and cousin's family in The Netherlands because her immigrant parents could not care for her when they first came to New York City. At about nine years of age she rejoins them and her young sister. When this hard striving, married young woman learns that her beloved grandmother is terminally ill, she returns to The Netherlands to be with her. She does not return home and disappears. Her sister Amy travels to The Netherlands hoping to find her.
The novel goes back and forth from the perspective of each sister as well as some short chapters from the perspective of their mother.
Although the novel progresses very slowly at times it certainly kept me reading to find out what happened to Sylvie. In fact, I broke my cardinal rule and looked a little ahead, when I needed more information. Luckily, I did not fully uncover the true answer to the mystery, so I was able to avoid the real answers until I got to the end.
This novel proceeds in the voices of the three major female characters, Sylvie, her sister Amy, and Ma, the mother of both. The story unfolds as their memories are very slowly related to the reader. There are buried family secrets which will ultimately determine
When the Lees emigrated from China to America, “the beautiful country”, they decided to temporarily send their daughter Sylvie to live with relatives in Amsterdam, Netherlands. Helena and Wilhem Tan had also emigrated from China. They were financially better off and operated their own restaurant. Once on their feet, the Lees hoped to retrieve Sylvie. The Tans had a son Lucas, who was the same age as Sylvie so she would have a friend. The Tans did not practice the old ways of China, however, while the Lees continued to do so. Therefore Sylvie is raised far differently than her sister Amy, born in America while she was in Holland. Also, for some reason, Helena disliked Sylvie and mistreated her. Ma’s mother also lived with the Tans, and she is the person who is kind to Sylvie and who really raises her during her time there. The book stresses the difficulties of living as immigrants and as people who are not white, in a foreign country, and this is emphasized through the experiences of both families as they move through their lives.
As each of the important characters dealt with their experiences, in their own unique way, it sometimes got repetitious and tedious. Each suffered from their own emotional issues. Ma had always felt guilty and insecure about her life and the choices she made. She never truly adjusted to American ways and did not speak the language well. Sylvie felt cheated and abused, unloved and insecure, because she had been sent away to live with relatives. One of her eyes had a defect, and she had a protruding tooth. In addition to being Chinese and extremely different in a place like Amsterdam, those physical issues caused her to be bullied. She retreated into a shell and was determined to prove her worth by being the best in school and at work, but she was never fully accepted by others. She kept her distance from others and was perceived as cold, thus she always felt like, and was treated as, an outsider. Amy was born in America while Sylvie was in Europe. She had her own problems to contend with since she had a stammer and was very shy. Being different in America was no different than being different in Amsterdam. Both situations made the girls sad and withdrawn. When Sylvie came to America, Ma neglected Amy and worshiped Sylvie. Sylvie was the one Amy leaned on for support, the one who comforted her. Sylvie grew up to seem far more outgoing and far stronger than Amy, who remained shy and introverted. Sylvie married Jim, a professor. He was white and from an elite, wealthy family. They had snobbish ideas about one’s place in, and behavior in, the world. Sylvie had her own very successful career in the corporate world. She was now financially secure, but still different on many levels!
The men in the book, Pa, Lucus, Filip and Wilhem, are largely irrelevant or not well developed. The women are generally portrayed as mean and strong, rigid and controlled, as well as controlling. The men are meeker and softer in their behavior and development, with hidden violent tendencies. Both the men and women harbor secrets which will undue all of their lives.
When Sylvie suddenly disappears, after visiting Holland for her grandmother’s impending death, the story continues to become distracted with side issues. The characters did not feel authentic nor did their behavior. Sometimes it felt contradictory. I did not develop an attachment to any of them or a particular liking for any of them. I found them weak, selfish, self-serving, immature and headstrong, if not also lacking in common sense and judgment. The book is about very flawed characters that never seem to move on from their early descriptions as children.
Perhaps it was the author’s intent to distance the characters from the reader, emphasizing their “otherness” by not developing any significant traits in them to draw them closer to the reader. Just as they never felt accepted in their worlds, maybe she wanted the reader to also not accept them, and to always view them as penultimate outsiders.
The moral judgment of the characters, white, homosexual, heterosexual, Asian, American, rich and poor, was atrocious. While I wanted to keep reading to discover where the book would lead me, I was disappointed when it finally decided on one direction and took me there. At times, the narrative waxed poetic and at times it felt like it was geared to a young adult reader. It never truly grew up into a book I could recommend to others.
I found this book to be very interesting on many levels, touching on a number of poignant themes. The story is told from the perspective of Sylvie, her sister and her mother and is told with compassion and humanity. Jean Kwok writes a moving book. I definitely recommend this read.
“It is a profound exploration of the many ways culture and language can divide us and the impossibility of ever truly knowing someone—especially those we love.”
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with an advanced readers copy in exchange for an honest review.
In the process of searching for Sylvie, Amy learns that Sylvie's seemingly perfect life, career, and marriage, are falling apart. The narrative follows the sisters' experiences in the Netherlands, before her disappearance for Sylvie, after for Amy. Each uncovers family secrets and comes to understand her family in a new way. While at first it was jarring to me to think about a Chinese family settled in the Netherlands, I got past my limited view and found the story compelling.
The title is the first hint that there is more to the storyline than just a
At the beginning this storyline was a slow burn but by the end this book was definitely worth the wait as the puzzles presented by unreliable narrators intertwine in a seamless way. I often wondered as withheld secrets were eluded or contradicted who was telling the truth.
A deliberate and suspenseful tale spiked with themes of cultural identity, cultural expectations and the differing views of immigration on generations within a family.
This book is a terrific pick for book clubs as it showcases how memory become story and thus a form of immortality.
Sylvie Lee spent the first nine years of her life in the Netherlands being raised by her grandmother in the home of her mother's rich cousin. The rest of her days she lived
Jean Kwok tells a beautiful story through three perspectives: Sylvie, Ma(mother) and Amy (younger sister). Kwok writes characters with so much depth and emotion that you can't help but be drawn to each one. Whether you hate some or love others, you can't contain the feelings evoked. Where Kwok excelled was in her use of such beautiful prose. Each sentence was perfectly crafted and painted a beautiful picture of each scene. Her juxtaposition of Chinese metaphors within the text was brilliant and perfectly placed. Each word help you visualize the characters, setting and time. They gave context to each pivotal scene.
The novel tackles heavy topics in a beautiful way. The main themes were identity, immigrant experience, racism, stereotypes, family drama, cultural experience, tradition, self esteem/ confidence, family secrets, love and mental health. It was rich, ripe with emotion and full of depth. It was a story that left me breathless and heartbroken during some parts, yet also had me cheering through some parts when particular characters found their voice. It is a story that will always stay with me because it teaches you about the human spirit and what it means for some to truly broken by life and circumstance. The title is perfectly fitting because by the end when it all come together, you figure out the deep meaning. Bravo to Jean Kwok for such a beautiful, emotive tale that will remain close to my heart for years to come.
In short, it is excellent. It is fabulously crafted. The clues are all there, I thought I knew where this was heading--and I turned out to be right. But I wasn't really sure until the end. Which is just how I like it.
Thank you to William Morrow and LibraryThing for sending me an ARC for this book.
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Sylvie Lee--27, married, successful go-getter--heads to the Netherlands because her grandmother is dying. She spent her first 9 years living with her aunt, uncle, cousin, and grandmother there and has not been back til now. She reconnects with friends while there as well.
After her grandmother's death, she tells everyone she is heading home to NY, and then disappears. A week later her younger sister Amy, who has always been in her shadow, arrives to help search. She learns a lot about her sister while there, and better understands why she is who she is. She also uncovers family secrets.
Quotes: "Ma is delicate and yielding, like a coconut rice ball. Sylvie is all long limbs and sharp edges, more of a broadsword saber."
"If you do not speak, no one will ever hear you."