Confessions of a Prep School Mommy Handler: A Memoir

by Wade Rouse

Paperback, 2007

Status

Available

Call number

LD7501.N528 R68 2007

Publication

Three Rivers Press (2008), Edition: 1st, 249 pages

Description

Biography & Autobiography. Education. Nonfiction. Humor (Nonfiction.) HTML:When Wade Rouse�??a rural, public school graduate who grew up more Hee Haw than Dynasty�??was hired as the director of publicity at the prestigious Tate Academy, he quickly discovered his real job was to make a few of the very pretty, very rich, very mean mommies of the elite students happy. Enter former Tate beauty queen and sports star Katherine Isabelle Ludington�??Kitsy to her friends�??who went to an Ivy, married an Ivy, and made a lot of money. Now, she is Wade's VIP volunteer and a perfectly coiffed nightmare. In between designing Louis Vuitton�??inspired reunion invitations, dressing as Ronald Reagan for Halloween, and surviving surprise Botox parties, Wade tries to tame Kitsy and her pink Lilly Pulitzer�??clad posse while reclaiming his self-esteem. Following a year in the life of the super rich and super spoiled, Confessions of a Prep School Mommy Handler is hilarious, heartbreaking, and deliciously catty. From the Hardc… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member smbmom
This book starts out deliciously catty and entertaining. Every few pages I had to share bits and pieces with my husband, to underscore why I'd made the right choice in not sending our kids to an elitist institution. I wanted to relish this book, but after a while, the author's passive aggressive
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doormat persona just grew tiresome.
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LibraryThing member TBRetc
Personally, I really enjoyed this book. Wade Rouse is a hilarious author, and he writes about a time in his life where he was doing something that he was great at (PR at a Prep School) by sacrificing one very important thing (his dignity). I've seen mothers like this, and I thought it was a very
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honest and entertaining portrayal. Luckily for him, it seems like this was his big turning point that led him to his next experience in life, moving to the country with his partner (At Least in the City Someone Would Hear me Scream). Can't wait for more books by this author.
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LibraryThing member kageeh
I have to confess to a weakness for school-based novels so I probably enjoyed this more than I should have. On the other hand, the writing was good enough to keep me interested. I also believe the story was probably based on real life; nothing that happened hasn't already happened in real life.
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Private schools, helicopter parents, and scheming to attain Ivy League acceptances are all that's important to a certain class of people. Interesting, quick reading.
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LibraryThing member satyridae
I thought this would be a guilty pleasure, a fun portrait of the rich women who make the lives of the little people miserable. Instead, or actually in addition to that, I found a well-written memoir. Rouse was a closeted gay man working at an exclusive prep school at the start of the book. The
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journey he takes is memorable.
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LibraryThing member InDreamsAwake
I read an essay by Rouse on-line that was hysterical, this book.... not so much. Too many bad metaphors.
LibraryThing member PuddinTame
This book is very dependent on the reader's sense of humor; seeing the cover and reading the blurbs, I expected it to be funny. On the contrary, I thought it was terribly sad; other people disagree with me. I never found it either amusing or inspiring. More of a cautionary tale to stay with me own
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middle class.

I once had someone ask me why I worked since I hated my job so much. When I mentioned food, clothing, and shelter, they looked astounded. People often seemed to assume that surely someone would support me if I decided to quit. I didn't have a husband, but surely my family . . . -- no, only while I was in the mental hospital getting it through my head that adults are self-supporting.

So while I can see that Rouse could do with some more moral courage, dignity and truth have to weighed against the reality of bills, and the fear of jumping into a new, and possibly no better situation. Some people find that easy, the rest of us accept some suffering. And of course, a woman that I know who changed jobs frequently found out that it weighed against her in later life.

I never thought that The Great Gatsby was the great American novel. I kept thinking about it as I read this book. It is supposed to be about "us," but I see it as being about "them," the social class to which Daisy belongs and Gatsby has worked his way into, the class of the mean mommies of "Tate," people I don't know, and don't want to.
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Language

Original language

English

Original publication date

2007

Physical description

249 p.; 8 inches

ISBN

9780307382719

Barcode

34500000555014
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