After long silence : a memoir

by Helen Fremont

Paper Book, 1999

Status

Available

Call number

940.5318 FRE

Collection

Publication

New York, N.Y. : Dell Pub., 1999.

Description

"Fascinating . . . A tragic saga, but at the same time it often reads like a thriller filled with acts of extraordinary courage, descriptions of dangerous journeys and a series of secret identities."--Chicago Tribune "To this day, I don't even know what my mother's real name is." Helen Fremont was raised as a Roman Catholic. It wasn't until she was an adult, practicing law in Boston, that she discovered her parents were Jewish--Holocaust survivors living invented lives. Not even their names were their own. In this powerful memoir, Helen Fremont delves into the secrets that held her family in a bond of silence for more than four decades, recounting with heartbreaking clarity a remarkable tale of survival, as vivid as fiction but with the resonance of truth. Driven to uncover their roots, Fremont and her sister pieced together an astonishing story: of Siberian Gulags and Italian royalty, of concentration camps and buried lives. After Long Silence is about the devastating price of hiding the truth; about families; about the steps we take, foolish or wise, to protect ourselves and our loved ones. No one who reads this book can be unmoved, or fail to understand the seductive, damaging power of secrets. Praise for After Long Silence "Poignant . . . affecting . . . part detective story, part literary memoir, part imagined past."--The New York Times Book Review "Riveting . . . painfully authentic . . . a poignant memoir, a labor of love for the parents she never really knew."--The Boston Globe "Mesmerizing . . . Fremont has accomplished something that seems close to impossible. She has made a fresh and worthy contribution to the vast literature of the Holocaust."--The Washington Post Book World… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member Schmerguls
5637. After Long Silence A Memoir by Helen Fremont (read 5 Jul 2019) This book was published in 1999 and purports to tell the family reaction to learning of the author's research concerning the experiences of her parents during the Holocaust. While one wonders whether the book is literally true I
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found the account, especially in the latter part of the book, attention-holding and often startlingly poignant. I found myself totally caught up in the story and eager to learn what was related. The author's parents, in trying to stay alive, passed themselves off as Catholics and in the 1990's still attended Mass (though exiting before Communion) and had their daughters, born in the United States, baptized and make their First Communion. One has to be amazed by and admire the resilience which the parents exhibited to the overwhelming tragedies they experienced
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LibraryThing member Helene
A moving and compelling story of hidden family secrets revolving around the author's discovery that her parents weren't, as she had been raised to believe, Catholics. They were Jews and Polish immigrants who had lived through the horrors of the Holocaust and imprisonment in Stalin's Gulag only
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through sheer determination and a lot of deception. It's not hard to understand why her parents reinvented themselves and their relgious background after reading this book. Wonderfully written weaving perceptions of the present with an understanding of the past.
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LibraryThing member tloeffler
I really liked most of the book, but I thought there was too much emphasis in the end on her sexual orientation, which I found irrelevant to the story.
LibraryThing member Smits
Very interesting story written by a third person. A daughter discovers that her parents are jewish when she thinks they are catholic She discovers that they are holocaust survivors after never having know any of this growing up. She slowly uncovers there story as she and her sister negotiate the
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mindfield that is their parent's secret past.
Reading this memoir was very real and offered great insight into the war years from people who experienced the war in unimaginable ways.
very very interesting.
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LibraryThing member denmother4
“After Long Silence” is a true story that narrates a daughter’s search for not only her parent’s identity, but hers as well. Helen Fremont is the child of World War II Jewish survivors. She grew up in a home full of secrets and lies. As an adult she began questioning different aspects of
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her life that did not fit together. She knew that simply asking her parents would not provide her direct answers, so she turned to genealogy to unravel her parent’s past.
The word “Genealogy” is seldom mentioned in this book, but the story is full of the search and conquer that all family historians experience. Helen Fremont’s world blooms with answers she is only able to acquire through typical research methods that seem common to most genealogists. The following excerpt explains beautifully her discovery .
“Families are intricate, multi-headed creatures, moving in many directions at once but perhaps with an internal logic. My family is greater than just my parents. My family extends backward in time and space. I want to put them on record, however imperfectly – I want them to be seen and heard. And strangely enough, on the page I begin to recognize myself in my parents – a gesture here, a question there. My attachment to them grows stronger with each sentence that arranges itself before me. Perhaps this is the ultimate irony of my family.”
There are many concepts that may be hard to digest that are incorporated in this story. Not only are detailed accounts of surviving through World War II explored and explained, but homosexuality and dysfunctional families are also introduced.
I honestly found the writing style deplorable at times. If you are looking for a true story based on genealogical research, or if you have an interest in the struggles that were necessary to survive World War II as a Jew, you will find “After Long Silence” a thought provoking and motivating book.
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LibraryThing member June6Bug
Interviews with children of Holocaust survivors, many of whom had never talked about their experiences before meeting the author. Moving to read about how this tragedy affected not only those who lived through it but also their children and grandchildren.
LibraryThing member MikeBiever
I kept waiting for the book to have some climatic ending or middle, but it didn't get there. It never explained why the authors parents and family members hid their Jewish identity; never confronted a reason. Perhaps it was suppression all along due to the war. It never really answered the question
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or left its answer in historic details or memories.
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LibraryThing member VhartPowers
Two sisters find out (as adults), they're Jewish and learn the hardships their parents endured during WW11.
LibraryThing member EllenH
I had read this awhile ago and when her new book (The Escape Artist) came out I reread it before starting her new one. Still a great read. A family in such dysfunction appearing to be normal really made me think of the trauma of many now from abuse or post traumatic stress disorders. So many layers
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to the survivors lies and identity that one can only begin to understand life during WWII in Poland and Italy.
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LibraryThing member maryzee
Too disjointed

Language

Original publication date

1999

Physical description

352 p.; 21 cm

ISBN

0385333706 / 9780385333702

Local notes

Donated by Jonathon Lee, June 2019
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