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From the expert team behind IT'S PERFECTLY NORMAL and IT'S SO AMAZING! comes a book for younger children about their bodies - a resource that parents, teachers, librarians, health care providers, and clergy can use with ease and confidence. Young children are curious about almost everything, especially their bodies. And young children are not afraid to ask questions. What makes me a girl? What makes me a boy? Why are some parts of girls' and boys' bodies the same and why are some parts different? How was I made? Where do babies come from? Is it true that a stork brings babies to mommies and daddies? IT'S NOT THE STORK! helps answer these endless and perfectly normal questions that preschool, kindergarten, and early elementary school children ask about how they began. Through lively, comfortable language and sensitive, engaging artwork, Robie H. Harris and Michael Emberley address readers in a reassuring way, mindful of a child's healthy desire for straightforward information. Two irresistible cartoon characters, a curious bird and a squeamish bee, provide comic relief and give voice to the full range of emotions and reactions children may experience while learning about their amazing bodies. Vetted and approved by science, health, and child development experts, the information is up-to-date, age-appropriate, and scientifically accurate, and always aimed at helping kids feel proud, knowledgeable, and comfortable about their own bodies, about how they were born, and about the family they are part of.… (more)
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This book had an age range of 4-11, but I feel like some of the information is too complex for a four year old to grasp. I would consider it more for ages 8-11. It uses a lot of big words and techinical terms that would be too advanced for younger children. I found this book to be very informative and plan on using it when the time is right for my children.
I would be leary of using this book in the classroom since it does have so much mature content. I would definately get permission from parents first on this one. For a classroom activity, I would have a box that the kids could put any questions they may have about this book. We would then discuss all of the questions in class. I would not say who asked what question since that might embarass someone.
This book is accurate, age-appropriate, clear, thorough, and yet sensitive in explaining things to children. People may consider the range of information and illustrations provided to be shocking for children as young as 4, but really, my experience is that individual kids tend to take what they need from the information provided and ignore the rest if it is too much for them. It is the parents who find it shocking rather than the children.
Personal reaction: I thought that this was a really great book. I have a four and six year old and I have never discussed any of these topics with them. They have never asked so I never thought to talk about it. After reading this book I will definitely be going through it with them because I do think that it is important for children to know these kinds of things.
Extension ideas: I think that many of these topics parents may get upset if a teacher taught their child about it. Although I do think it is important for children to know things like the proper name for their private parts, I can definitely see some parents getting upset about a teacher discussing it with their child, so I would stay away from those topics completely. Chapters 11-20 covers pregnancy, fetal development, child birth, infant development, different types of families, good touches and bad touches, friendship, and growing up. I think that these topics would be okay to cover but I would probably still get permission from parents before discussing any of these topics. If I got the go-ahead I would teach children about pregnancy, a little about childbirth, and infant development. Especially if one of the students had a pregnant mother. I would bring fruit/vegetables to show the children the size that the baby is during each developmental stage during pregnancy. For infant development I would teach them the different stages that babies go through and we would discuss any new babies that the students have had in their family.
I bought this book for my nieces a few years ago, as they were coming up on that age when they were starting to have questions about the differences between boys and girls (as far as they were concerned, "girls have eyelashes, and boys have none!"). I've also re-examined the resources our parents used for when we were their ages, and was kind of horrified to see what they used (pretty misogynistic) and what was available at that time. For full disclosure as well, I worked in a bookstore, and was able to look through some of what was available and at hand, and I really couldn't find anything better than this book! For a topic that is as important to a child's development as this one, I would personally purchase this one for my children (if I had them).
I know that for some, the matter of circumcision is important, and the entirety of the discussion in the book is short, and is as follows: "The loose skin at the end of the penis is called the "foreskin." Some baby boys' foreskins are removed a few days after they are born. Some baby boys' foreskins are not removed. That's why some penises look different from other penises."
These authors also have other books that explain other life lessons in a "Let's Talk About You and Me" series that I haven't read but would only assume to be just as great as the others: "Who Has What?: All About Girls' Bodies and Boys' Bodies," "Who's In My Family?: All About Our Families," "What's in There?: All About Before You Were Born," and "What's So Yummy?: All About Eating Well and Feeling Good."