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Biography & Autobiography. Religion & Spirituality. African American Nonfiction. Nonfiction. HTML: A critically acclaimed #1 New York Times best-seller with more than one million copies in print! Now a major motion picture. Gritty with pain, betrayal, and brutality, this incredible true story also shines with an unexpected, life-changing love. Meet Denver, raised under plantation-style slavery in Louisiana until he escaped the "Man" in the 1960's by hopping a train. Untrusting, uneducated, and violent, he spends 18 years on the streets of Dallas and Fort Worth. Meet Ron Hall, a self-made millionaire in the world of high-priced deals�??an international arts dealer who moves between upscale New York galleries and celebrities. It seems unlikely that these two men would meet under normal circumstances, but when Deborah Hall, Ron's wife, meets Denver, she sees him through God's eyes of compassion. When Deborah is diagnosed with cancer, she charges Ron with the mission of helping Denver. From this request, an extraordinary friendship forms between Denver and Ron, changing them both forever. A tale told in two unique voices, Same Kind of Different as Me weaves two completely different life experiences into one common journey. There is pain and laughter, doubt and tears, and in the end a triumphal story that readers will never forget. Continue this story of friendship in What Difference Do It Make?: Stories of Hope and Healing, available now. Same Kind of Different as Me also is available in Spanish.… (more)
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That being said, as a librarian, I would recommend this book to people who do like inspirational stories, especially from a Christian perspective and people interested in racial tensions in the South. I'm sure many people read this as a redemptive and inspirational book about the way faith and persistence can change lives, one at a time. For me, the only way the novel could have been more painful was if it gave me paper cuts on every page.
Ron is an art dealer who managed to acquire vast sums of money through his business, while Denver is a homeless man, having run away from his slave-like existence as a sharecropper down south. Deborah drags her husband to a mission in down town Fort Worth, where they live, and the two men meet.
The memoir focuses a bit on the childhood and early adult years of Ron and Denver, to set their backgrounds, but devotes much more time to the period after they meet and beyond. The narrators also spend time telling Deborah's story, as she was the instrument in bringing both men together. Her compassion led her husband into a life about God's mercy, rather than money, and her love showed Denver light after being surrounded by darkness for so long. It is a surprising story, how two men are redeemed from very different places, and a sweet story, of friendship and love. It will also make you cry. Definitely worth a read, to see a Godly way of reaching out to the homeless, and a lesson in a life that can be lived in humility and love.
We learn how Ron Hall came from lower-middle class to successful international art dealer and how Denver left a sharecropping farm to come to
The interspersing of chapters from Ron and from Denver works really well and the structure of the story is very readable. The protracted illness and death of Debbie is rough but real and gives insight into the relationship developing between the two men. It started with what looked like a homeless man in need of a friend. But Denver became the friend to Ron as he dealt with anger and grief.
Their goal was to get people to look at the homeless with a new perspective and to see more people reach out and make a difference. I think it is successful.
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Overall Score: 7 out of 10
I really did enjoy this book. I thought the alternating chapters in the different “voices” was a most effective way of communicating character and building the storyline. I very
I was previously aware of the persistent discrimination and ongoing slavery-by-another-name in the South, but this story tells that angle very eloquently and exposes the grim history that the South hoards. The tale of the rocks battle to win use of the “foot-logs” to cross the stream on the way to school was just one in a long line of brutal insults to the growth and development of a child that would usually make for a defensive bitterness of Spirit.
Denver: I really liked him—being a true story I have to word this differently, but Lynn Vincent managed to bring out the important aspects of his life to elucidate why he was the way he was. His early life was so harsh—it’s hard for people to believe this kind of thing went on in the not-so-distant past. Hence, he was an amazingly faithful, resilient, intelligent person; in spite of all that he went through. I think the one thing which exposed his real heart was how he cared for Mr Ballantine—when nobody else did. I ask myself where did he develop his compassion? Only answer to me that makes sense is it’s God-given. I really liked the “catch-and-release” metaphor for friendship and can see why it was so important for Denver to have (and be) a forever friend after his many disappointments & abandonments. When he went to Colorado I really didn’t want him to fail, but I couldn’t see how he was going to pull it off, I held my breath until he was safe. I don’t think I have the same depth of faith. Of note, I thought the baptism in the river scene was terrific. You realize what a great raconteur this man would be & how fun it would be to sit down with a cup of coffee and hear some more of his stories.
Ron: It was very interesting to see the veil of racism get slowly pulled back the more he got to know Denver; and testament to his wife’s simple faith & persistent encouragement and love. It was also interesting to see him mature and grow into a man of faith and love. He was humble enough to be honest and let it happen.
Debbie: the one person who didn’t get to tell her own story, it was told through the eyes of the two men (and after her death), which was effective, but at times I would have wanted to know her inner thoughts. I don’t believe she was as angelic as perceived by them but such is hindsight, call me a skeptic! This is somewhat to be expected in the circumstances though. She was an impressively gentle, loving and faithful person. It’s a rare person that has such vision for people. I liked the way she handled Ron’s affair—determined and decisive; she really did re-write their history and I can only imagine Ron’s ultimate gratitude for this.
Debbie’s illness and death: this is really like another whole character—to me it had a life of it’s own. I thought it was quite well told, factual but sympathetic. I also liked the fact that she defied the odds. The best doctors I have worked with will refuse to give time for a person’s lifespan, (even if they can predict a probable course) because everyone is different and even though there’s a body of medical science that gives us facts and figures; the life and spirit of a person can never be numbered by days, weeks or months.
It was nice to see clearly illustrated how the family went on the journey with her toward her death—it takes strength of character to do what she did—to release her husband, to give him permission to move on
The FAITH demonstrated in the book was a key theme. Debbie with her visions, Denver with his knowledge of God from his childhood and Ron with his reluctant, but slowly growing faith was well explored. The power of prayer was demonstrated and the way in which sometimes people just have to work certain things out before they die. Also, I was pleased to see how things progressed after Debbie’s death. It seemed like sort of a cliché; but you can’t say that when it’s true—every cloud has a silver lining; there was a reason for things being the way they were and a mustard seed has to die itself before it can give fruit to others. Especially how the friendship between Ron & Denver is only cemented after her death: “I was purty sure after she went home to be with the Lord you was gon’ cut me loose” to be followed by “When I promised not to catch-and-release I meant it”.
11/20/09
There were things that bothered me about this book, but not enough to put it down. I usually don't like stories that feature unrealistic characters, and by that I mean people who are extremely smart or extremely rich or extremely good looking or extremely anything, because such characters and their stories are so hard for me to relate to. I’m not interested in reading stories about people with such advantages, as I rarely find that they have much of anything to teach me about life -- and that is something I look for when I select a book to read. As a main character, Ron came dangerously close to that, but what redeemed him for me were his failings, some of them pretty major. SPOILER ALERT!: While the death of his wife was very sad, I think he was still too raw when he wrote about it -- it was still too consuming, he had yet to put it into perspective.
I would recommend this as a good book to read, especially if you (like me) often find yourself wondering if you can do more to help others than you currently are. Here are two people who took one small step in that direction, were faithful and consistent in doing so, and suddenly were presented with the opportunity to make a real difference in someone else's life. Lucky them!
This is a book of prejudice and injustice, hope and faith and perseverance through adversity. I have been recommending this book to anyone who will listen. No matter your walk of life you will take something away from this book.
Ron is a successful art dealer living the American dream with a beautiful wife who has a heart of gold. While Ron and his wife Debbie are volunteering at a homeless shelter, Debbie determines that Ron needs to befriend the irascible and anti-social Denver. It takes some time, but eventually a friendship is born, shortly before heartbreak befalls them all.
Debbie is portrayed in the book nothing short of a saint. She is selfless, God-fearing (and God-loving), patient, compassionate and kind. Based on a dream she had (and which she views as a vision from God), she pushes Ron to befriend Denver. Once Ron begins to build a relationship with Denver, he finally broaches the idea of he and Denver becoming "friends", to which follows a lovely moment when Denver shares his concerns over how white people practice "catch and release" when they go fishing, and he doesn't wish to be "caught and released" like one of those fish. Ron commits to keep Denver if he can catch him, and over the years their friendship grows into brotherhood.
As their friendship builds, Ron is repeatedly struck by the small town wisdom of this illiterate sharecropper/homeless man.
This book is 235 pages and 67 short chapters, which is how I prefer it. I only get to read is bursts, and I always appreciate having a good stopping point every few to a dozen pages. It also includes a Readers Guide, an Interview with the Authors, and a few pages of pictures.
My final word: This book was moving and inspiring. It goes beyond the trappings of life to the heart of the matter, and is proof that two people can move beyond societal lines to forge a lasting friendship that can weather any storm. And behind it all is a humble woman small of frame and great of spirit.
The history is interesting enough, but it seems like there is only one suspense here, and that is, when do they meet and what they have in common? Maybe it is just my antsy mood this summer, but frankly, after fifteen chapters, I got tired of waiting, and decided that what they might have in common wasn't all that compelling. There are pictures in the back of the book, which told me the answer, and it is what I expected. This is a New York times bestseller, and supposed to be a really inspirational story, and maybe it is for some people. but I think it is one of those things that get so hyped up - a NYT bestseller and Barbara Bush even liked the book - that it can't live up to the hype, at least not for me.
I got this book from Thomas Nelson in exchange of my review.
When it comes to the meaning of friendship, I think Denver's line in the story is most accurate and complete. "But if you is lookin' for a real friend, then I'll be one forever." So what does an art dealer, a Christian wife with the heart of the servant and an uneducated, homeless black man have in common? The one thing, the main thing is that they made a difference in each others lives. It was not by chance that they found strength in their purpose together. I have learned to be more compassionate towards everyone I meet now and as I get to know them, remember the element of surprise can be your friend.
I have no doubt that you will be inspired with a renewed perspective in faith and relationships with this remarkable, true and unforgettable story. ***** stars. Highly recommend this quality book!