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Boston : Houghton Mifflin, 1990.
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xix, 358 p.; 22 cm
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Child psychiatrist and author Coles strongly identifies himself with a liberal humanitarian ethic, which isn't what draws me to his work. In fact, it's part of what defeated an earlier attempt of mine to read a different book by him, The Call of Service. Even so, I held out hope that The Spiritual
In the end, it seemed like the book was really about Robert Coles: how he negotiated his condition as a secular, skeptically-conditioned intellectual vis a vis pious and spiritually curious children. I did not object to (enjoyed, actually) the first chapter on the vexed and shifting status of the psychoanalytic tradition's judgments about religion. Similarly, I appreciated the authorial reflexivity in the second chapter on method, describing his conflicts, hesitancies, and difficulties in eliciting children's real views on matters important to them. But that matter became an unceasing refrain throughout the book while recounting his interviews with children, e.g. "I began thinking of some words to speak..." (50), "I found myself wondering..." (102), "I gave myself an inward lecture..." (214), "Now I felt impelled to speak" (282). Perhaps this mode of reportage is an inevitable byproduct of Coles' psychoanalytic orientation, but I got seriously tired of it.
Also, despite Coles' evident efforts to devote attention--entire chapters, even--to Jewish, Muslim, and vaguely secular children (plus one Hopi girl), there were far too many pages dedicated to kids talking on and on about Jesus. Certainly, this is no invalidation of the book relative to its likely readership. But while I was once a Christian child myself, Christian children are something I neither have nor want, and so their clearly dominant presence in the book became another source of fatigue for me as a reader.
In his effort to focus on "spirituality not religion," Coles avoided any substantial discussion about children's experiences of religious ritual or worship, and only glancingly addressed the issue of religious instruction. At the same time, all of the accounts in the book were overtly circumscribed by the religious affiliation (or lack thereof) of the children involved. The omission of their ceremonial and catechumenal lives was a significant loss, as far as I was concerned.
I didn't regret holding on for the final chapters, one on "Secular Soul-Searching" and the last on "The Child as Pilgrim." These had some of the more interesting conversations, as well as more general applicability to my own situation. The endnotes are constructed to direct readers to a wider range of texts that engage some of the important questions that could only receive passing attention in this one, and there may be two or three books there that I will pursue.
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Life of Children would be an entertaining and/or informative read for me, since it purports to offer intimate accounts of the religious and spiritual perspectives of children aged six to thirteen, a range which includes my own daughter at its lower end. While the book did have some value for me, it was mostly disappointing. In the end, it seemed like the book was really about Robert Coles: how he negotiated his condition as a secular, skeptically-conditioned intellectual vis a vis pious and spiritually curious children. I did not object to (enjoyed, actually) the first chapter on the vexed and shifting status of the psychoanalytic tradition's judgments about religion. Similarly, I appreciated the authorial reflexivity in the second chapter on method, describing his conflicts, hesitancies, and difficulties in eliciting children's real views on matters important to them. But that matter became an unceasing refrain throughout the book while recounting his interviews with children, e.g. "I began thinking of some words to speak..." (50), "I found myself wondering..." (102), "I gave myself an inward lecture..." (214), "Now I felt impelled to speak" (282). Perhaps this mode of reportage is an inevitable byproduct of Coles' psychoanalytic orientation, but I got seriously tired of it.
Also, despite Coles' evident efforts to devote attention--entire chapters, even--to Jewish, Muslim, and vaguely secular children (plus one Hopi girl), there were far too many pages dedicated to kids talking on and on about Jesus. Certainly, this is no invalidation of the book relative to its likely readership. But while I was once a Christian child myself, Christian children are something I neither have nor want, and so their clearly dominant presence in the book became another source of fatigue for me as a reader.
In his effort to focus on "spirituality not religion," Coles avoided any substantial discussion about children's experiences of religious ritual or worship, and only glancingly addressed the issue of religious instruction. At the same time, all of the accounts in the book were overtly circumscribed by the religious affiliation (or lack thereof) of the children involved. The omission of their ceremonial and catechumenal lives was a significant loss, as far as I was concerned.
I didn't regret holding on for the final chapters, one on "Secular Soul-Searching" and the last on "The Child as Pilgrim." These had some of the more interesting conversations, as well as more general applicability to my own situation. The endnotes are constructed to direct readers to a wider range of texts that engage some of the important questions that could only receive passing attention in this one, and there may be two or three books there that I will pursue.
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