Honor Lost: Love and Death in Modern-Day Jordan

by Norma Khouri

Hardcover, 2003

Status

Available

Publication

Atria (2003), Edition: First Edition, 211 pages

Description

I'd always believed that we'd spend our lives together...I never dreamed that my time with her would be cut short, or that my life would be a journey down this path, but I realize that she left me with a mission...I must find a way to make all Arab women's silent cries for justice and freedom heard around the world. Dalia was a young, beautiful Arabian Muslim living with her family in Amman, Jordan. At the age of twenty-five, she unexpectedly fell in love with Michael, a major in the Royal Army, and a Catholic. For a Muslim woman, any relationship with a Catholic man is forbidden, and Dalia was only too aware that flouting this rule could cost her her life. But they were deeply in love, and with the help of Dalia's lifelong friend, Norma, with whom she ran a hair salon, they went to extraordinary lengths to meet in secret. Dalia and Michael were only alone on a handful of occasions, and their relationship remained entirely chaste. Although they covered their tracks meticulously, one of Dalia's brothers became suspicious and she was suddenly gripped by the terrifying reality of what might happen to them all. Norma Khouri's book is a gift to the memory of her friend. In it she recounts a powerful love story that ends in an appalling tragedy, and also attempts to bring to the world's attention the continuing practice of honor killing in Jordan -- an ancient tradition that encourages the murder of women considered to have dishonored their families. It is a crime that effectively goes unpunished. Shocking and dramatic, Honor Lost will strike a chord with women everywhere and is a testimony to the courage and strength of women who are prepared to defy generations ofmale dominance.… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member Nirmala-books
This is an excellently written book that keeps you engaged in the story to the end. But it is very unfortunate that this author claimed the story to be true while it is not, if the many statements that say this about the author are true. There are no statements to say that these horrible treatments
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of women as described do not happen in real life. So one can wonder, even though the story is not true and the author used a wrong method, was it made up to bring attention to forbidden truth?
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LibraryThing member Citizenjoyce
A rather poorly written book about a very important topic. Not only was the book found to be fiction, Khouri herself was found to be a charming con artist. Apparently Khouri didn't even grow up in Jordan, and the parts of the story that you think sound fishy are. The book does bring attention to
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honor killings which deserve to be publicized by a believable person.
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LibraryThing member shikari
I started to read this on the train yesterday evening, about fifteen pages in I started to have doubts, and by page 63 I was sure it was a hoax. Pleased to find I was right, as I didn't entirely recognize the Jordan I was being shown; displeased to find I was right as it's a rather harmful book,
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both to Jordan's reputation (not least through inaccuracies) and to the cause of women's rights in the region. But it does, I suppose, show Khoury's own perceptions as an American Christian Arab.
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LibraryThing member SarahZee
This book is just one big fat lie.I'm sorry to see that some people still are so fame hungry that they tell one big lie after another, I'm in no means ever racist, but this evoked my anger so much that I have to clarify this:I'm a Muslim girl living in Jordan, this kinda stuff happens, but no more
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than few cases a year, we do not live in constant fear of being kill because we love, you cannot generalize the whole Jordanian community to be murderous just because some crazy person decides to kill his sister/daughter. A crazy (and I say crazy because in my opinion, any one who decides to kill another human being, no matter the reason, is just someone gone mad and lost his humanity) lost it and found the reason to excuse a kill.I'm saddened that a Jordanian woman, who didn't spend her live in Jordan, and not even Muslim, tries to attack a world she knows nothing about. We have enough accusations thrown our way every day without given reasons to have more lies encouraging more attacks.This books is in all means nothing close to the truth. And, the author claiming it to be the truth just makes it a piece of trash.
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LibraryThing member yeremenko
A shameful attempt to cash in a very real problem. Norma Khouri has been revealed to be a con-artist, and this book is a hoax. She has done untold harm to the women she claims she wants to help. Arab extremeists can hold her up as an example of the lies used by the west, and she has made them
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correct.
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Physical description

211 p.; 6.34 inches

ISBN

0743448782 / 9780743448789

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autobiography
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