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Sultana is a Saudi Arabian princess, a woman born to fabulous, uncountable wealth. She has four mansions on three continents, her own private jet, glittering jewels, designer dresses galore. But in reality she lives in a gilded cage. She has no freedom, no vote, no control over her own life, no value but as a bearer of sons. Hidden behind her black floor-length veil, she is a prisoner, jailed by her father, her husband, her sons, and her country. Sultana is a member of the Saudi royal family, closely related to the king. For the sake of her daughters, she has decided to take the risk of speaking out about the life of women in her country, regardless of their rank. She must hide her identity for fear that the religious leaders in her country would call for her death to punish her honesty. Only a woman in her position could possibly hope to escape from being revealed and punished, despite her cloak of anonymity. She tells of her own life, from her turbulent childhood to her arranged marriage - a happy one until her husband decided to displace her by taking a second wife - and of the lives of her sisters, her friends, and her servants. By speaking out, Sultana risks bringing the wrath of the Saudi establishment upon her head and the heads of her children. In the barren, hopeless wasteland that is the life of Saudi women today, free speech is punishable by death.… (more)
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I am one of the suspicious as I found parts of this book did not ring
As a North American woman it is hard to believe, much less read about the degree of control that men hold, the brutality that is commonplace and accepted, the laws that treat women as a possession, and the outdated systems that are kept in place for the sole purpose of keeping women in their place. I do realize that this book takes place before the 1990's and some changes have occured since that time, but in recent years the Arab countries have swung back to a very traditional viewpoint.
An eye opening read and a frustrating look at a archaic system that should be changed but sadly probably won’t. In this country of immense wealth, the men have the power and appear to have not intention of allowing their women to step out of their shadow existence. When government, religion and tradition are set so solidly in one direction, it would be incredibly difficult or even impossible to change.
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You would think after years and years of hearing about how Arab women are treated, after being a child in the early 90's when we put troops in Saudi Arabia, that it would be hard to shock me. But even after hearing from my parents and teachers what is done there, I have to
I smiled often at the little victories that these women would obtain and cried when I read of the horrors they would have to go through and were expected to put up with. I was also amazed by Sultana's brutal honesty about not only the wicked men in her country but also the 'lazy' women who would talk about fighting for their rights, but never quite stand up and do what it took.
This is an amazing and eye opening read. I recommend it to any woman!
Although names and situations were altered to protect the identity of the princess, the message is one of utter frustration and anger, and tells of the attempt to break away using wealth and subterfuge. Such male attitudes would seem to be an example of mindless faith on the part of men and women who adhere to customs based solely on ancient texts, and should be a warning to those who accept thoughtless religious dogma from the interpretation of others, devoid of common sense and human decency. In recent years, things have not gotten much better for Saudi women. This is a disturbing book for everyone, not just feminists.
I give it 3-stars for the simplicity of the writing style, but the content is 5-stars to anyone who really wants to know of the hypocrisy and control behind the immense wealth and veil of Islam in Saudi Arabia. It is the first of three books on Saudi by author Sasson.
The book is also full of contradictions that show that Sultana is still, at the time of writing/dictating the book, deeply immersed in the "mindset" of her country. In location 900 (I'm on a Kindle) she says, "...there are many classes of people in my land, from those various levels of the wealthy Royal Family down to that of lowly salaried workers. But no one, including foreign workers, is without the basic necessities of life. Our government ensures the well-being of all Saudis. Each male citizen is assured of a home, health care....Our female citizens are provided for by the men of their families..." Loc 1019 states that the "poorest Bedouins" have to live in tents and imply they have trouble feeding their families.
Sultana is also guilty of stereotyping against other races, as shown by this unprompted comment: "unsmiling German contractors" [loc 1704]
Being known as the trouble maker in her own up, she tried to live up to reputation, by proving to her cruel brother, Ali, that he has met his match. She continues her rebellious stage until her friends are caught being ,’indecent,’ and Sultana’s father arranges a quick and speedy marriage. The punishment of her friends leaves in her in a depression until she meets her husband-to-be, and decides that she can make it work. By sheer chance she received a tolerant, and modern thinking husband, a rare find in Saudi Arabia.
Everything goes well in their marriage for many years, until she is rendered incapable of conceiving again, and her husband, Kareem, reveals that he wishes to take a new bride for the sake of children. Then, she runs away.
I would recommend this book, just because it definitely has the ,’it,’ factor . There’s something about it that makes you keep reading. Possibly , because every chapter reveals a juicy secret kept by the royals !
And how many lives have you lived in such cultures as this? Do you carry an echo within you? Does your relationship with either gender reflect this subtle influence? I know I have a strong, past-life connection to harem lifetimes, as both man and/or woman, proven by my flashbacks and experiences in the present life, as detailed in my own book. It's important to ferret out any leftover imbalances in attitude in the present, and this book will help you do it. We live such lives to learn, but now's the time to discard the less useful elements through our objectification and analysis.
The sad aspect is that both men and women in such a restrictive social world are suffering from the lack of equal partnerships, or, as I like to call them, polarity relationships, which could otherwise do so much for their happiness, peace of mind, and productivity.
Do I think the Princess of the title is a real person? Hard to say. What a risky thing these two women did by creating this book! I waited two decades to read it, after my own close call with an opportunity to live in Saudi Arabia. From all I've learned from insiders about life in that country, I believe every story told in the book is true or as close to truth as could safely be conveyed. Since identities needed to be so securely hidden, some of the stories may have been many times repeated, but I didn't sense a lot of exaggeration, based on my knowledge of the customs.
It's a highly readable book, and you may find yourself compelled to keep turning pages, even when the situations are so shocking you'd like to quit.
My heart was breaking about this story. I couldn't put it down. Then, I couldn't stop talking about it. It's awful to hear how women are treated over there. This was an excellent book, every American, man or woman needs to read this!
My heart was breaking about this story. I couldn't put it down. Then, I couldn't stop talking about it. It's awful to hear how women are treated over there. This was an excellent book, every American, man or woman needs to read this!
well written, informative about saudi life.