Changes : a love story

by Ama Ata Aidoo

1993

Publication

Feminist Press at the City University of New York, c1991

Collection

Library's rating

Status

Available

Description

"Changes" explores the complex world in which the lives of professional working women have changed sharply, but the cultural assumptions of men's lives have not. Witty and compelling, Aidoo's novel, according to Manthia Diawara, "inaugurates a new realist style in African literature." "Aidoo writes with intense power in a novel that, in examining the role of women in modern African society, also sheds light on women's problems around the globe."--"Publishers Weekly" (starred review) Suggested for course use in: African literatureAfrican studiesFamily Studies Ama Ata Aidoo, one of Ghana's most distinguished writers, is the author of two other works of fiction, "Our Sister Killjoy" and "No Sweetness Here" (The Feminist Press), as well as plays, poems, and children's books. "Tuzyline Jita" Allan is associate professor of English at Baruch College, CUNY.… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member shawnd
This is a novel of paradoxes, starting with the pace. The writing style makes it a very slow read, even for 150 or so pages, but the story itself progresses forward apace, even jumping ahead to relevant life events. The reader is drawn in to liking the main character, Esi, even though she herself
Show More
is challenged with her decisions, and she gradually alienates or loses many around her. Continuing the paradox, the male characters, and in a feminist book no less, clearly are behaving in a negative way in a culture perpetuating and accepting their actions, yet the author brings to light attitudes and writing that makes them sympathetic. Overall, a thought provoking and challenging book that likely meets the author's goal, is troubling for the reader, but does not have a story or writing skill that makes it a must read.
Show Less
LibraryThing member books333
I love this book! I don't know that anyone will agree, but I describe Changes: A Love Story as the best chick lit ever! I don't mean that to be diminishing at all. The novel is concerned with relationship. It deals with marital rape, the difficulties facing women in the workplace, and the conflicts
Show More
inherent in the protagonist's roles as woman, wife, mother, friend, employee, and lover. I read this novel a few years ago for a class. It's not the type of book I would normally choose, but I'm so glad to have read it. Yes, Aidoo deals with serious issues, but Changes is also fun!
Show Less
LibraryThing member fieldnotes
This is my first exposure to Aidoo, who is better known for her drama than for her fiction. "Changes" is a compact and mature look at a woman's inability to find satisfactory companionship and love in modern day Accra, Ghana. The insights into polygamy from both the female and the male perspective
Show More
were fascinating and the passages showcasing marriage negotiations and traditions were a definite highlight. The writing itself is fairly spare and unremarkable, earning perhaps a mental grin now and then. At times it seems so matter-of-fact and confined to the protagonist's head that a reader wonders if it will devolve into a simple romance--which it never does. At its best it verges on deadpan and sports an understated, almost defeated sort of wit ("Although she knew there was nothing positively wild in how she was feeling about him, there was nothing negatively wild in it either. Definitely, she had no urge to run and scratch his face. Maybe if she had done, or shown her anger in any of the other ways she had planned, (he) would have felt better").

Throughout the novel(la?) the writing rings true and the characters are entirely believable. The book is not at all oppressed by references to contemporary African politics or conspicuous references to poverty and misery. All the actors are comfortably middle class and the real target of Aidoo's analysis is Africa's understanding of gender. I'll read another book of hers after this.
Show Less
LibraryThing member ott
Such a simple and heart-wrenching story, lyrically told
LibraryThing member meggyweg
This had more of a plot than most of the African fiction I've read so far, but it moved pretty slowly for me. Basically the story is this: Esi, a high-earning statistician in Ghana, is having marital problems and the final straw is when her husband rapes her. She leaves him, falls in love with a
Show More
Muslim guy named Ali, and becomes his mistress. Eventually Ali takes Esi as his second wife, but their relationship doesn't change -- he still only visits once in awhile before going "home" to his first wife and kids.

You could classify this as feminist literature -- the three female characters in the story are all professional women who try, with varying degree of success, to juggle careers, husbands and kids in the face of their partners' indifference, envy and/or disdain. The women in this story would have a lot in common with Western women that way. Most people in the West don't imagine African women as having professional jobs like the characters in Changes do.

I think the story was okay, and I certainly could understand and empathize with the characters. The author did an omniscient narrative very well -- sometimes those are hard to pull off. The story did sort of peter in the end without much of a conclusion, but I can easily to see real life turning out just the same way. I don't think I'll be looking to read other Ama Ata Aidoo books, but for people interested in African and/or women's fiction, this would be well worth a look.
Show Less
LibraryThing member starbox
"It was a man's world. You only survived if you knew how to live in it as a woman", 31 July 2015

This review is from: Changes: A Love Story (Paperback)
Set in 1990s Ghana, this very readable novel follows three marriages of career women: there's statistician Esi, our central character, whose teacher
Show More
husband resents her career and wants her to follow a more traditional role. Then there's her lover Ali, a Moslem - but with a wife and family. And lastly Esi's best friend, midwife Opukoya, badly paid and rather a drudge to her family.
There are no easy answers: "a man always gains in stature any way he chooses to associate with a woman - including adultery -But in her association with a man, a woman is always in danger of being diminished."
Many differences to women's experiences in the West - but many similarities too!
Show Less
LibraryThing member starbox
"It was a man's world. You only survived if you knew how to live in it as a woman", 31 July 2015

This review is from: Changes: A Love Story (Paperback)
Set in 1990s Ghana, this very readable novel follows three marriages of career women: there's statistician Esi, our central character, whose teacher
Show More
husband resents her career and wants her to follow a more traditional role. Then there's her lover Ali, a Moslem - but with a wife and family. And lastly Esi's best friend, midwife Opukoya, badly paid and rather a drudge to her family.
There are no easy answers: "a man always gains in stature any way he chooses to associate with a woman - including adultery -But in her association with a man, a woman is always in danger of being diminished."
Many differences to women's experiences in the West - but many similarities too!
Show Less
LibraryThing member spiralsheep
156/2020. This is a social realist novel about a middle class urban Ghanaian woman who falls out of marriage and into love, with all the consequences for herself and her extended family, told from an African feminist perspective. The author manages to be both sharply perceptive and amusingly witty
Show More
without sacrificing realistic portrayal. It's also freer in form than traditional European novels, with more influence from oral culture and West African conversational style. Thoroughly enjoyable.

Quotes

I'm laughing so hard: "years of having a clever woman in his home and an unbroken chain of rather stupid heads of department at his place of work had taught him not to take anything for granted in a discussion."

LMAO: "Indeed the only opinion Musa Musa could possibly have shared with African heads of state is that any discussion of mortality is treason and punishable, by death of course, if the circumstances are right."

Grandma on marriage and society: "[...] remember a man always gained in stature through any way he chose to associate with a woman. And that included adultery. Especially adultery. Esi, a woman has always been diminished in her association with a man. A good woman was she who quickened the pace of her own destruction. To refuse, as a woman, to be destroyed, was a crime that society spotted very quickly and punished swiftly and severely."
[...]
"Life on this earth need not always be some humans being gods and others being sacrificial animals. Indeed, that can be changed."

On adaptive traditions: "All the spirits should have been appeased: ancient coastal and Christian, ancient northern and Islamic, the ghost of the colonisers."
Show Less

Language

Original language

English

ISBN

9781558610651

Original publication date

1991
Page: 0.3849 seconds