The Wilder Shores of Love

by Lesley Blanch

Paperback, 2010-01-21

Publication

W&N (2010)

Original publication date

1954

Description

Four women who dared to live their romantic fantasies, not just dream them. Aimée Dubucq de Rivery was a convent girl who was captured by pirates and forced to join the enormous harem of the Turkish sultan. Lady Ellenborough was a society beauty who fled London and became notorious for her love affairs with the important men of Europe, including two kings - Ludwig of Bavaria and Otho of Greece, then she lived with an Arab sheik in Syria for almost 30 years. Isabel Burton travelled to exotic lands with her explorer husband. Isabelle Eberhardt was born and raised in Switzerland and grew up as a nonconformist, feeling most comfortable in boy's clothes. She lived among the Arabs in the North African desert and described her surroundings in travel writings and journals. Yet although of widely different natures, backgrounds and origins, all had this in common - each found, in the East, 'glowing horizons of emotion and daring'. And each of them, in their own way, used love as a means of individual expression, of liberation and fulfilment.… (more)

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LibraryThing member Ganeshaka
If I had to reduce my library to one shelf, this book would be on it. If all the other books were by and about men, Lesley Blanch's The Wilder Shores of Love, alone, would provide the gender balance. The suggestive title is misleading. This is not a romance novel, nor erotica. Think, instead, of
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Lytton Stachey's Lives of Eminent Victorians. This, also, is a quartet of diverse biographies, similarly concerning lives in the 19th century, equally readable and entertaining, and, too, a whole greater than the sum of its parts. It's unfortunate the book came out in 1954, during the Eisenhower era, when women's roles were just beginning to expand beyond secretary, factory worker and homemaker. Then its potential audience was limited. Today, well - it should be required reading in high school.

The four women featured share a biographic theme. Each, ultimately, came to be fascinated by, and fated to live an important part of their lives, in the Near East. But that was about all they had in common. Isabella Burton, wife of the famed explorer, was a devoted spouse who lived for and through her husband's glory. Lady Jane Digby el Mezrab, who kept her famed beauty until old age, followed romance where ever it led, acquiring and discarding more husbands than Zsa Zsa Gabor, until she found true love in Syria. Aimee Dubucq de Rivery, cousin of Josephine Bonaparte, was captured by pirates and consigned to a Turkish harem, but prevailed, through court intrigue, to become the mother of an emperor. Isabelle Eberhardt, unprepossessing in appearance, was more at home in the desert than society, chose to cross dress - though she had a male lover, and escaped to a life in North Africa as a free lance journalist. Her admirers included, equally, both Muslims and French Legionnaires.

There is, too, a fifth woman in the book, who led a life every bit as full and adventurous as her subjects - the author, Lesley Blanch. A talented artist, and journalist, she married author and diplomat Romain Gary and traveled widely with him. She experienced Hollywood society in its golden era, wrote a dozen books, and lived to 103. Her scholarly and romantic spirit gives a unique and brilliant illumination to the four lives she examines, almost to the point where they beckon, across the hot sands, like fata morgana castles in the air.
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LibraryThing member bookwoman247
This book is a compilation of four mini-bios of women who lived from the 18th Century to the very early 20th Century. The thread that weaves these women's stories together is that their hearts and lives were inexorably bound to the Near East, and all bucked convention in one way or another.

As a
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biography, it was written far too subjectively to be very good. The author made too many conjectures about her subjects' motives and about the states of their minds without very strong supporting evidence.

On the other hand, I loved this book, which read more like historical fiction, to me. I must admit, here, to a guilty-pleasure weakness for romantic exoticism, and this was thoroughly satisfying on that level. It's also always satisfying to read about and root for women who were strong enough to live lives outside the narrow confines of the role of women from earlier eras.
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LibraryThing member shojo_a
I found this book on the bookshelf when I was vacationing with my family in the South of France. (Wow, that is possibly one of the most pretentious sentences I've every written. But that's I was.) It's beautifully evocative, instantly transported you back through time, into the lives of these
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fascinating women. My only caveat is that it comes from that period of oriental exoticism which means it has some problematic racial issues for the modern reade
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LibraryThing member shojo_a
I found this book on the bookshelf when I was vacationing with my family in the South of France. (Wow, that is possibly one of the most pretentious sentences I've every written. But that's I was.) It's beautifully evocative, instantly transported you back through time, into the lives of these
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fascinating women. My only caveat is that it comes from that period of oriental exoticism which means it has some problematic racial issues for the modern reade
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LibraryThing member starbox
"Life's poetry never sank to prose", 1 February 2016

This review is from: On the Wilder Shores of Love: A Bohemian Life (Kindle Edition)
Couldnt put this down - biographies of four women who 'belonged to the West but dared to turn to the East for adventure and love.'
Thus such famous travellers as
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the more academic Lady Hester Stanhope are excluded, as the author focusses on more romantic tales.
Isabelle Burton's fevered love and devotion to her explorer husband.....Isabelle Eberhardt, child of a dysfunctional Russian emigre family, and her short and weird, hashish-fueled life in the Algerian desert.....and English aristocrat Lady Ellenborough, who worked her way East through a series of lovers and husbands to find true romance with her Sheihh.
Perhaps the fourth subject can hardly be said to have 'turned to the East', as she was forcibly abducted by Corsairs as she sailed home from her French convent school. Aimee Dubucq de Rivery ended up wife of the Sultan, but her westernizing influence on her son, the future Mahmoud II, was - the author contends - behind the stance Turkey adopted in numerous political events of the day.

The strict biographer might baulk at the author's use of imagination where she lacks documentary proof - "it is probable that Aimee... sometimes accompanied her son" etc. but I found this an unputdownable read.
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Language

Original language

English

ISBN

9780753827918

Physical description

336 p.; 5.16 inches

Pages

336

Rating

½ (37 ratings; 3.8)
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