Prognosis: A Memoir of My Brain

by Sarah Vallance

Ebook, 2019

Status

Available

Call number

5315

Description

"When Sarah Vallance is thrown from a horse and suffers a jarring blow to the head, she believes she's walked away unscathed. The next morning, things take a sharp turn as she's led from work to the emergency room. By the end of the week, a neurologist delivers a devastating prognosis: Sarah suffered a traumatic brain injury that has caused her IQ to plummet, with no hope of recovery. Her brain has irrevocably changed. Afraid of judgment and deemed no longer fit for work, Sarah isolates herself from the outside world. She spends months at home, with her dogs as her only source of companionship, battling a personality she no longer recognizes and her shock and rage over losing simple functions she'd taken for granted. Her life is consumed by fear and shame until a chance encounter gives Sarah hope that her brain can heal. That conversation lights a small flame of determination, and Sarah begins to push back, painstakingly reteaching herself to read and write, and eventually reentering the workforce and a new, if unpredictable, life. In this highly intimate account of devastation and renewal, Sarah pulls back the curtain on life with traumatic brain injury, an affliction where the wounds are invisible and the lasting effects are often misunderstood. Over years of frustrating setbacks and uncertain triumphs, Sarah comes to terms with her disability and finds love with a woman who helps her embrace a new, accepting sense of self."--Amazon.com.… (more)

Publication

Little A (2019), 284 pages

User reviews

LibraryThing member linda.marsheells
I bought this book because of its topic.. TBI-traumatic brain injury- my husband was given a 1% chance of living thru his brain surgery when he was 33. I was hoping to attain a better grasp of how he now sees things, to understand just how his brain now works, how to curb my impatience at times.
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Maybe it's because the author suffered her brain injury by way of a fall from a horse and not surgery, so, tho it was interesting ,this book was truly specific for her and her problems.
Let me say this. Sarah Vallance deserves 5 stars for her incredible push to overcome her deficits. To go from an inability to read and huge loss of vocabulary, her severe memory loss, to the major accomplishment of writing a book is amazing. But it was the flat tone of the book that got her 3 stars instead.
Mixed feelings...I applaud Sarah for the chutzpah to get as far as she has....i'm incredibly happy that she found 'Louise' …. I understand the problems faced being an introvert but overall the book is similar to listening to someone give a speech in a monotone voice.
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LibraryThing member DebbyeC
Minority Opinion...

I really, really wanted to like this book. Based on the blurb I expected a story about overcoming a devastating injury. What I read was a very long “woe is me” where the author blames her bad behavior on other people and her injury. I just don’t understand why she did not
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seek help earlier! Relying on newspaper IQ tests and Nintendo games to determine that you should end your life rather than suffer with dementia is just so silly! Ugh!! Also, there were so many gaps in the story and she is such an unreliable narrator that I had a hard time understanding how she went so long without work, but she was still able to buy houses and travel. She idolizes her father, but then mentions his abuse several times, but she tears her mother so poorly and then cannot understand why she has a distant relationship with her family. During the course of your life you seem to have the same issues with the way everyone treat you, at some point you need to take a look at the common denominator- you!
Bottom line, I don’t have much tolerance for people who throw the victim card down to explain every bad event in their life, especially if they absolutely refuse to take any initiative to heal themselves.
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LibraryThing member crazybatcow
Very interesting. Hard to believe though, that the world is so dismissive of TBI and its impacts. The mother was... well... less than ideal. I would think family and friends would actually care more about her than they did. Also amazing that she managed to find a stable relationship, given her
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self-admitted anger issues. Not many people would stick around for that.
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Language

Original language

English

Physical description

284 p.; 8.25 inches

ISBN

1542043026 / 9781542043021
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