En we noemen hem

by Marjolijn Van Heemstra

Paperback, 2017

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Publication

[Amsterdam] Das Mag Uitgevers 2017

ISBN

9789492478375

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"Marjolijn van Heemstra has heard about her great-uncle's heroism for as long as she can remember. As a resistance fighter, he was the mastermind of a bombing operation that killed a Dutch man who collaborated with the Nazis, and later became a hero to everyone in the family. So, when Marjolijn's grandmother bestows her with her great-uncle's signet ring requesting that she name her future son after him, Marjolijn can't say no. Now pregnant with her firstborn, she embarks on a quest to uncover the true story behind the myth of her late relative. Chasing leads from friends and family, and doing her own local research, Marolijn realizes that the audacious story she always heard is not as clear-cut as it was made out to be. As her belly grows, her doubts grow, too - was her uncle a hero or a criminal? Vivid, hypnotic, and profoundly moving, In Search of a Name explores war and its aftermath and how the stories we tell and the stories we are told always seem to exist somewhere between truth and fiction. "--Provided by publisher.… (more)

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LibraryThing member pomo58
In Search of a Name by Marjolijn van Heemstra turned out to be a much more compelling book than I expected. I don't mean to imply I had low expectations, I just had no idea how much this wonderful novel would make me think about so many aspects of life that usually go unexamined.

There is a time
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constraint, namely the time of a pregnancy. The story of the research and the story of the pregnancy is intimately entwined and each sheds light on the other. The content of the research, centered on an event in 1946, is yet another story. As a reader I was swept up in each story to the point where they were, as they should be, one story. Or like a tree, perhaps a family tree.

I think there are so many ways into this novel that most readers will be able to find a path that speaks to them. The only readers I would be less likely to recommend this book to would be those who read mostly genre fiction and want/need those common elements to make the story flow for them. This is not an action-filled novel and the conflicts are largely internal.

To offer some idea of the kinds of thoughts the book stirred in me, I will mention what is probably the most obvious element: what is in a story? Who decides if a story we tell about our life or our family is accurate? Who actually knows? Good or bad people or actions? Again, it depends on perspective. Stories about our families and our lives are like history, the ones doing the writing/telling are the ones deciding right and wrong, good and bad. Same events from another perspective will likely reveal a different set of heroes and villains, justice and injustice. Finally, how good are we, when not pushed to look more closely, at being somewhat realistic about our own stories?

Reviewed from a copy made available by the publisher via NetGalley.
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LibraryThing member kimkimkim
It would have been so easy to believe all the old war stories, to embrace them as gospel and move forward and christen the child as promised. But when is life ever easy?

Told in a weekly countdown to the birth of her child the author compels herself to find “the proof of courage, sacrifice and
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allegiance.” Nothing less will validate the “Bommenneef, Cousin Bomber” the Dutch Resistance hero who is to lend his name to her child. Frans Julius Johan are three perfectly acceptable first names, but the terms of the naming have a tinge of suspicion about them. The story needs to be sussed out. She quickly discovers “there are two things you don’t find in historical documents: that which, at the time, was common knowledge, and that which no one wanted mentioned.”

18 weeks left - our author can’t do what people have been doing for seventy years - she can’t leave out the parts of the story that she doesn’t like. She begins to understand the child’s game of telephone is also played by adults and with every retelling the truth may become harder to find. It isn’t an easy or kind pregnancy, nor is the story. Following the threads leads to dead ends, complications, frustration.

14 weeks left - She posits - “you cannot understand a man without understanding his war.” The question resounds: “How long does a war last?” “Does a single life become meaningless in the light of the stars and one’s own moral Law?”

13 weeks left - the findings scream of collateral damage.

12 weeks left - a very pregnant woman with swollen legs, hormones raging, desperate to keep her story intact no matter the deficiencies and disparities. “Sorry, sorry, sorry.”

1 week left - “End things with the truth.”

3 days left - still no name “baby for the time being”

The day - “He has a name”.

Thank you NetGalley and Atria. Books for a copy.
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Awards

Dublin Literary Award (Longlist — 2022)
BNG Bank Literatuurprijs (Winner — 2017)
Libris Literatuur Prijs (Shortlist — 2018)

Original publication date

2017-05-04
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