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Biography & Autobiography. Performing Arts. Nonfiction. Humor (Nonfiction.) HTML:NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER �?� Tired of memoirs that only tell you what really happened? Sick of deeply personal accounts written in the first person? Seeking an exciting, interactive read that puts the �??u�?� back in �??aUtobiography�?�? Then look no further than Neil Patrick Harris: Choose Your Own Autobiography! In this revolutionary, Joycean experiment in light celebrity narrative, actor/personality/carbon-based-life-form Neil Patrick Harris lets you, the reader, live his life. You will be born to New Mexico. You will get your big break at an acting camp. You will get into a bizarre confrontation outside a nightclub with actor Scott Caan. Even better, at each critical juncture of your life you will choose how to proceed. You will decide whether to try out for Doogie Howser, M.D. You will decide whether to spend years struggling with your sexuality. You will decide what kind of caviar you want to eat on board Elton John�??s yacht. Choose correctly and you�??ll find fame, fortune, and true love. Choose incorrectly and you�??ll find misery, heartbreak, and a hideous death by piranhas. All this, plus magic tricks, cocktail recipes, embarrassing pictures from your time as a child actor, and even a closing song. Yes, if you buy one book this year, congratulations on being above the American average, and make that book Neil Patrick Harris: Choose Your Own Autobiography! �??Neil Patrick Harris�??s Choose Your Own Autobiography is one of the best celeb memoirs I�??ve ever re… (more)
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As we made our way to the gate before a two-hour flight home last night, we spotted this book. I knew it had come out recently, and realized that the format (ostensibly a ‘choose your own adventure’-style autobiography) would probably lend
Now, despite his start as Doogie Houser, M.D., I mostly associate Mr. Harris with Barney Stinson, his character on my favorite sitcom, How I Met Your Mother. As my husband can attest, I will re-watch the shit out of that show on Netflix Streaming, and when I’m felling sad I’ll seek out the blooper reels online for a guaranteed laugh. I had high hopes for this book, but I’m a bit disappointed. It’s not the best comedic memoir I’ve read, nor is it even one of my favorites. (And if you check out my CBR5 reviews, you’ll know that I read a LOT of comedic memoirs, so I do have a frame of reference).
The trick he chooses – writing the entire book in the second person, turning the reader (“you”) into “Neil Patrick Harris” – is a fun one. It does allow for some unexpected moments, although I must admit I didn’t actually choose any adventures; I just read the book straight through, and it worked just fine. Mr. Harris is a national treasure, so I feel a bit odd being critical of the book, but aside from the occasional clever bits, I don’t actually feel like I got much out of reading the book. I mean, I enjoyed learning about his early career, and his experiences dating, and the choices he’s made in life, but the second person convention sort of allows Mr. Harris to write his story as a removed observer, preventing any sort of real connection between the author and the reader.
The book is also obviously going to be filled with enough dropped names to sink a ship, and that makes sense. That’s been his crowd since he was sixteen. But there’s something a bit off-putting about a chapter going on and on about gosh golly gee how cool is it to hang out with Elton John in Greece? I don’t think Mr. Harris is insincere, or bragging, there’s just something a little strange about how it’s presented. I also have some issues with the device he uses of having some folks pen letters to him to include in the book, that basically just go on and on about how great he is. I’m assuming they are real letters; they aren’t gushing enough to be satirical, they’re just sort of, I don’t know, really self-indulgent. And obviously any memoir is going to be self-indulgent. I don’t know – I’m having trouble articulating because I really want to like this book, and I really still do like Mr. Harris, and putting one’s life story essentially up for critique is impressive as hell, but at the same time … this book just wasn’t for me. I’d give it two stars, but the originality bumps it up to three for me.
Don't get me wrong. We are all shallow at times, and we hopefully continue to grow and gain in grace and knowledge. I
He does appear to be a different, wiser person today. I'm about 95% finished with the book as I write this. He hasn't yet reflected on anything with any depth or comments as to what exactly has made him stronger or kinder or wiser.
It's just falling flat for me.
For those who like celebrity gossip there are nice stories about Elton John, a crazy story about Anne Heche and a funny – or maybe scary – one about Scott Caan, to name a few. Other than a little too many magic tricks – not much fun in audio – it was a delight.
Audio production:
Neil narrates his life story as only he can, and often talks about himself in the second person. The audiobook is arranged slightly different from the print. Since the listener can’t choose what page to jump to, we instead listen to each scenario and then after a slight pause Neil tells us what’s up next and to stay tuned for more. A very entertaining 7 hours and an easy listen.
Even though the choose-your-own adventure format of Neil Patrick Harris’ book makes it a format that leans heavily towards the print version, NPH has done a tremendous job translating it into the audiobook format. Not only does he include some additional audio of one of his childhood speeches, his delivery adds a whole new level of charm and humor to the experience. It also makes those moments of real drama in his life – his first job, the birth of his children, his public coming out – so much more heartfelt. To read these things oneself is one thing; to hear him express his own frustrations, gratitude, and love is extraordinary.
NPH does not mince words when it comes to certain stories. He is open and quite frank about his sexual journey and his path to marriage and fatherhood. In fact, he is open and frank on just about everything. He drops f-bombs when the narrative calls for it and uses more child-friendly language when it does not. It is a bit like listening to Robin Williams perform, as he bounces from subject to subject with enthusiasm and a vibrancy that would exhaust most people.
Listening to Choose Your Own Autobiography, one instinctively understands that there is no artifice to NPH. He shares his worries and fears with abandon. If he sounds a bit like Barney Stinson at times, it leads one to believe that Barney was not quite such a departure from the real NPH after all. Their humor is the same, as is their ability to turn things into a double entendre with no effort. In addition, there is a joie de vivre to NPH that has always made it so much fun to watch him on stage and screen, and this same zest for life makes the audiobook an absolute blast.
Neil Patrick Harris is hilarious and his autobiography is VERY well written!
Actually, I think there
And if you look closely at those descriptions, you see the problem. Yes, he has faced adversity, but he hasn't faced the usual highest highs and lowest lows that are the bread and butter of many autobiographies. Yes, high highs. But the lows have been valleys, not deep canyons. (Easy for me to say – I didn't have to live his life. But I'm just comparing to what I see in other autobiographies.)
The other type of autobiography you will often see are those where things don't really go wrong for the author, but they have a lot of good stories to tell. That usually means they are written by people much older than Harris.
So, with all that in mind, this approach may well have been the best choice. Yes, he has faced adversity. But enough to keep us glued to every page? Probably not. Yes, he has good stories. But enough to fill a book? Not so sure. So instead, we have a slight of hand (which matches his love of magic); we have an interesting conceit that presents the information in a slightly different format. It is entertaining, and it distracts us.
All this works, but it does get to be a bit much. The make-your-own-adventure conceit wears thin many times, and at times he writes as if he remembered he is supposed to be including these red herrings. I read the book straight through without worrying about the conceit. My wife did, also. And my son did, also. And my daughter is now reading the book and, while I haven't checked with her, I imagine she is doing the same. And I'll bet that most people use that approach. And I'll even further bet the Harris never expected many people to read it any other way. It is a lark, and it is slightly fun, and it is cute, but it does grow old.
But, when all is said and done, it is a nice book. Harris implicitly acknowledges that he has had a pretty good life. And he tells us this without particularly rubbing our noses in it. And, by the end, he strikes you as someone you might not mind knowing.
And the stories he does have are quite good.
I loved that Neil was not afraid to name drop and dish dirt. In my opinion, that’s a must for a good celebrity memoir. And through it all, he’s also wonderfully star struck and unjaded. His chapter about him and his husband meeting and then becoming friends with Elton John and his husband was wonderful. He was just as freaked out by meeting Elton John as just about anyone would have been. And a sneak peek into Elton John’s life was a nice bonus.
Neil lets us into his personal life as well – his coming out process, his relationship with his husband David and becoming a father. He gushes so sweetly about his kids. After listening to this book, I felt like NPH and I were BFFs and I was truly sad when it ended. If you are a Neil Patrick Harris fan – and if you’re not, you should be! – then this book is a must for you.
This book was an insanely enjoyable ride from start to finish. Complete with card tricks. I giggled conspiratorially when I ran to get the cards in my hutch. I smiled like a moron on my
He is honest and open about his life. The good, the bad, and the resplendent.
Well done, NPH.
I did notice that NPH stuck almost entirely to the positives in his life. I can hardly complain about it, because it was an artistic (and personal) choice that made the book a very fun read... and I'm not all that surprised, either. NPH has always struck me as the kind of person who has a very open and outgoing personality, but is pretty guarded about deeper feelings.
He also talks exactly the right amount about his kids -- you get a glimpse into a very important part of his life, but you don't feel like he just strapped you to the couch and pulled out twelve photo albums and a heap of parenting books.
I definitely recommend the audiobook; it's just that much better hearing it in the author's own voice.
I did notice that NPH stuck almost entirely to the positives in his life. I can hardly complain about it, because it was an artistic (and personal) choice that made the book a very fun read... and I'm not all that surprised, either. NPH has always struck me as the kind of person who has a very open and outgoing personality, but is pretty guarded about deeper feelings.
He also talks exactly the right amount about his kids -- you get a glimpse into a very important part of his life, but you don't feel like he just strapped you to the couch and pulled out twelve photo albums and a heap of parenting books.
I definitely recommend the audiobook; it's just that much better hearing it in the author's own voice.
I listened to "Choose Your Own Autobiography" on audiobook, which I realized probably
The distancing that the unique perspective had, though, didn't make the story feel any less personal. In fact, this autobiography felt like one of the most honest, sincere celebrity memoirs I have ever read. He truly opened up about his life -- his family, the incredible opportunities he had, the struggles of dealing with a lot of fame at a very young age, the difficulties of opening up about his sexuality in a high-profile industry--and I appreciated that. He truly has led a charmed life, and he seems truly, incredibly grateful for everything life has sent his way. I loved hearing about his relationship with his partner, David Burtka, and the family they've created together. I also really loved the insight he gave into the many roles he's played throughout his career, and the many different experiences he's had with co-stars in each.
I would highly recommend this autobiography for anyone who is a fan of NPH, or who just enjoys good celeb autobiographies.
I do believe this is one of the most entertaining autobiographies I have picked up in a while. I thought I knew something of this talented actor before I picked up the book, but I was pleasantly surprised to find out I knew rather little. For the most part, the book takes us through his life up to his early 40s in a chronological order. Harris does a really good job of putting the reader in his shoes and finding the humor in the situation even when it can only truly be appreciated when looking back on the past.
While I knew Harris was a child star in the TV show Doogie Howser, M.D., I really didn’t understand what it meant for both Harris and his parents for him to be an under-aged actor in Hollywood. Essentially, he had to be legally escorted by a parent until he came of the legal age to work unattended. So his parents had to put their lives and careers in New Mexico on hold in order for Harris to have this acting gig. Dedication – that’s what that is.
From there, I learned about his time spent on the New York theater scene and making made-for-TV movies back in Hollywood. Eventually, he lands the part of Barney Stinson in the long running TV show How I Met Your Mother. Now, this part here kind of lost me. Prior to listening to this book, I had never seen an episode of this show. So when Harris starts channeling the character Barney (a man’s man and womanizer) it was so completely different from his tone for the rest of the book, I wasn’t too sure what to make of it. By now, I have watched quite a few episodes of this show and the Barney Stinson parts of this book make a lot more sense. So, I highly recommend you catch at least a few episodes of that series before diving into this book.
The humor is laced throughout this book. Some of it is outright fanciful, such as the made up alternative endings that feature Harris dying in some gruesome way. Other parts are Harris pointing out character flaws (in himself and in others) and yet humanizing them with humor. There are a few times where he talks about rough patches where he or others were out of line and apologies were needed and he treats these with grace and as learning points.
Finally, I loved how open he was about his sexuality. Harris is what you might call a late bloomer. It took him some time to figure out his orientation and then to embrace it. I think that anyone who is fumbling (or has fumbled) around trying to figure out this part of themselves would enjoy this aspect to the book.
All around, this book was well worth my time. Now, I just wish I could have tried out the card tricks while driving.
The Narration: Harris did quite the nice job of narrating his own book. For much of it, he just needed to use his own natural voice. Here and there he tossed in a few character voices when another actor or celebrity had nice or funny things to say about Harris. He also included a recording of his kid self giving a little speech he practiced for school.