Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle (MHWRC Copy)

by Emily Nagoski PhD

Other authorsAmelia Nagoski Dma (Author)
Paperback, 2020

Status

Available

Description

Self-Improvement. Sociology. Women's Studies. Nonfiction. HTML:NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER � �This book is a gift! I�ve been practicing their strategies, and it�s a total game-changer.��Bren� Brown, PhD, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Dare to Lead This groundbreaking book explains why women experience burnout differently than men�and provides a simple, science-based plan to help women minimize stress, manage emotions, and live a more joyful life. Burnout. Many women in America have experienced it. What�s expected of women and what it�s really like to be a woman in today�s world are two very different things�and women exhaust themselves trying to close the gap between them. How can you �love your body� when every magazine cover has ten diet tips for becoming �your best self�? How do you �lean in� at work when you�re already operating at 110 percent and aren�t recognized for it? How can you live happily and healthily in a sexist world that is constantly telling you you�re too fat, too needy, too noisy, and too selfish? Sisters Emily Nagoski, PhD, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, are here to help end the cycle of feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Instead of asking us to ignore the very real obstacles and societal pressures that stand between women and well-being, they explain with compassion and optimism what we�re up against�and show us how to fight back. In these pages you�ll learn � what you can do to complete the biological stress cycle�and return your body to a state of relaxation � how to manage the �monitor� in your brain that regulates the emotion of frustration � how the Bikini Industrial Complex makes it difficult for women to love their bodies�and how to defend yourself against it � why rest, human connection, and befriending your inner critic are keys to recovering and preventing burnout With the help of eye-opening science, prescriptive advice, and helpful worksheets and exercises, all women will find something transformative in these pages�and will be empowered to create positive change. Emily and Amelia aren�t here to preach the broad platitudes of expensive self-care or insist that we strive for the impossible goal of �having it all.� Instead, they tell us that we are enough, just as we are�and that wellness, true wellness, is within our reach. NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY BOOKRIOT �Burnout is the gold standard of self-help books, delivering cutting-edge science with energy, empathy, and wit. The authors know exactly what�s going on inside your frazzled brain and body, and exactly what you can do to fix it. . . . Truly life-changing.��Sarah Knight, New York Times bestselling author of Calm the F*ck Down.… (more)

Physical description

304 p.; 7.98 inches

User reviews

LibraryThing member bookworm12
This book resonated with me. The authors’ strong but crucial message for women is told with warmth and humor. I loved the references to pop culture, including everything from Star Trek to Jane Eyre. They cover body image, the importance of sleep, completing the stress cycle, and more.

“We get
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exhausted and we wonder if we can accomplish any of the things we hope for, without destroying ourselves in the process.”
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LibraryThing member JaxlynLeigh
I had very high hopes and expectations for this book, especially as the beginning started out so well, giving advice and suggestions on how to deal with and complete the stress cycle. However, later on in the book, I felt lost - the chapters and information presented didn't seem to deal with
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burnout and how one can handle it. I understood the metaphors but often found that relating those to real life was not as simple. It seemed the book began straying from its original intentions.

*I received a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.*
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LibraryThing member SamMusher
Super important! Though I think I love their podcast, Feminist Survival Project 2020, even more.
LibraryThing member ShannonRose4
Everyone is burned out these days. Most of us (especially women) are brought up believing that you must be pretty, happy, calm, and generous at all times: Failure is not an option.
This book blows the doors off all that, by uncovering the true elements of and causes of burnout (with help from Star
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Trek!) and gives the tools and techniques needed to combat burnout.
This book is the much needed and urgent answer to a desperate call from all of us.

This is the book we have all been waiting for. Amazing.
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LibraryThing member ShannonRose4
Everyone is burned out these days. Most of us (especially women) are brought up believing that you must be pretty, happy, calm, and generous at all times: Failure is not an option.
This book blows the doors off all that, by uncovering the true elements of and causes of burnout (with help from Star
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Trek!) and gives the tools and techniques needed to combat burnout.
This book is the much needed and urgent answer to a desperate call from all of us.

This is the book we have all been waiting for. Amazing.
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LibraryThing member spinsterrevival
This is such an amazing book, and I’m glad that I just reread it. I’ve experienced the complete burnout breakdown even after reading this over a year ago. It’s probably going to take multiple times to take in all the information and also try to rewire all my crap. I think this is an important
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book that every woman needs to read.
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LibraryThing member Pferdina
Excellent advice for why stress affects women the way it does and what you can do about it. Based on the scientific evidence, practical skills that anyone can succeed at.
LibraryThing member jennybeast
I could have sworn that I reviewed this book -- but since my review vanished, I'll try again. Profoundly helpful, life changing. It really helped me to understand certain dynamics in my life, so that I can identify and change situations. It also equipped me with solutions to how to shed the stress
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I encounter. I loved the frank, humorous writing style, the useful case studies, the suggestions for how to improve things. Empowering to read and inspiring. Can't recommend it highly enough.
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LibraryThing member jlford3
Burnout: Secrets to Unlocking the Stress Cycle examines stress from a variety of angles to help give women a clearer view on why they might be struggling with stress and what to do about it. (Spoiler: though your inner voice might be saying it's because you're lazy, dumb, or have bad time
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management skills, that's probably not the answer.) The authors start the book by looking at the internal, individual factors that lead to burnout. They move into the external factors that affect women's experience of stress with a particular focus on impossible-to-meet social standards, explaining that by recognizing those influences, women will be less likely to internalize them and judge themselves unfairly. They finish the book by emphasizing major strategies (though actionable plans are also discussed throughout the book) to cope with and even flourish in spite of life's challenges.

The book's major strength is the authors' humorous, encouraging voice that can explain scholarly research comfortably. They keep a strong focus on the reader's objective, which is to obtain effective strategies for feeling better. Each chapter ends with a few bullet-pointed major points, which is handy for readers who want to reference a tip later. The comprehensive nature of the advice, which moves from identifying an emotion or behavior, to the science behind it, to research-backed ways to address it and become healthier, makes this book feel different than other books that might talk about how exercise reduces stress without explaining why, or prescribe greater willpower without explaining the influence of sleep on motivation.

In sum, this book was like talking to a very smart, funny sister or best friend who has some great real-world advice and your best interests at heart. It was definitely worth my time.

-Review provided by my wonderful colleague Cara Marco! We received this book as an ARC from Goodreads.
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LibraryThing member Pepperwings
A super insightful book, with several new twists on what "self care" really means and how to approach things in a way they can be completed. This book is definitely aimed at women, but could be beneficial for all people, a lot of the advice is universal.
LibraryThing member ms_rowse
This is probably be a yearly re-read for me. Thought-provoking, and some of the pages elicited strong emotions (anger, sadness) but well-worth the time spent. I think it will be interesting to revisit it in several months and see whether I've made any progress.
LibraryThing member Daumari
I tend to be a little bit wary of self-help books, especially if they make pop culture references because I feel like that dates them, but Burnout quite concisely describes the reasons for stress (we tend to freeze or flee or 'just grit your teeth and deal with it' without actually completing the
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stress cycle to release) and ways to alleviate that in our lives. It neatly packages a lot of what I stumbled into through my university's CAPS after nearly crashing and burning in grad school about self-compassion and recognizing it's okay to be kind to yourself, including thatinternal critical voice as part of yourself as well.

I tend to skim through other reviews before posting mine, just to see if I'm on a similar wavelength as other readers and this one seems to be polarizing- alas, I do wonder if some of the negative reviews would be less harsh if they became aware of the impact that systemic patriarchy has on nearly every aspect of society, and how there's a lot of stress on being a "Human Giver" as the Nagoski sisters put it.
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LibraryThing member lisapeet
I think self-help really isn't my thing, but this is a subject that is of some interest to me this year and came recommended, so I went in with an open mind. There were some concrete ideas that were definitely of value for me, especially around physically managing the stress cycle so that it can
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conclude rather than keep spinning, and hammering home the importance of sleep... someday I'll internalize that one. I guess that's the point of this kind of book, take what you need and leave the rest... Anyway, I'm glad I read it even if not all of it stuck.
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ISBN

1984818325 / 9781984818324
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